The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue
Authors: Violet Blue
Tags: Psychology, Reference, Self-Help, Health & Fitness, Sexual Instruction, Sexuality, Personal & Practical Guides, Human Sexuality, Women's Health
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hard one.
Now that you’re both hot and bothered, you’re ready to take the plunge. This is when you use your mouth to its fullest advantage—or in my opinion, for what it was made for. You’ve been licking everything but her clit this whole time, and by now you’re feeling like you deserve a treat for keeping your impulses in check. Your treat is coming! You’ve been driving her wild with teasing strokes and the heat of your soft tongue; now it’s time to approach her clitoris.
As you move to the clitoris, lick the entire area around it until she’s very aroused. Begin by gently holding her labia open with your fingers, and starting on the side, run your tongue up and down the furrows alongside her clit, between the inner and outer lips. Gently nibble, with your mouth only, her outer and inner labia. In this crucial buildup phase, try kissing her vulva the way you might kiss her mouth. Use your whole mouth, not just an extended tongue. Then, as if licking an ice-cream cone with a soft, flat tongue, give her one long sixty-second lick. Remember: going slowly is essential. Repeat the ice-cream licks if they were well received, until she begins to melt.
Lazily circle her clit with your tongue. Keep in mind that you should never go straight for it—the clitoris is always more sensitive at first—so always lick the shaft from the sides. Some women will have a favorite side, so pay attention to her body language to see what she likes. For instance, if she rocks her pelvis or moans appreciatively, then you’ve found a good spot. You’ll also want to notice if she is responding to a hard or soft tongue: this will most likely change, but it’s important to know what feels great for her at this stage in her arousal. Pay particular attention to her body when your tongue touches her clit—if she suddenly convulses or jolts, you’ve hit the right spot, but with too much force. Does it seem like she’s quivering? That’s also a sign for you to back off. If that happens, retreat to the sides of the clitoral hood and slow your pace.
Lightly flick your tongue over the clitoral hood and shaft in side-to-side strokes. Not all women enjoy up strokes on the hood, because they expose the sensitive glans, so your best bet for a sensitive clit is always a side-to-side approach. Next, flatten your tongue and gently run it over the hood and shaft you just flicked; then return to the light flicker. This is when things will really begin to heat up for both of you: keep flicking and let her responses guide your pressure. She may want your tongue to the side and firmer, or the flickering might be driving her wild—her breathing will change, her skin will flush, her genitals may begin to swell, and her muscles will tense. Don’t stop now, whatever you do, because you’re about to get down to business.
How to Keep Your Lipstick Perfect
One issue particularly bothersome to women of the more femme persuasion, such as myself, is how to keep our lipstick in order when going down on our sisters. Fortunately, cosmetic companies have heard our cries of despair and have formulated lipsticks with what they call “kissing power.” These modern inventions (found in drugstores) stay put for up to four hours and won’t move no matter what set of lips you’re kissing. You can also find products in beauty stores called “lip set,” a liquid you brush over your own perfect lipstick application. This product is a modern miracle—it stays on for around six hours, and you can do anything with it on. Plus, you’re not stuck with the colors in the “kissing power” lines.
Tongue Techniques
No need to feel tongue-tied at the beginning of what is about to be the most important speech you’ve ever given—but it’s easy to feel that way when you get to this point and suddenly draw a blank on what to do next. Even if you don’t get stage fright easily, it’s good to have a few aces up your sleeve, so to
Now that you’re both hot and bothered, you’re ready to take the plunge. This is when you use your mouth to its fullest advantage—or in my opinion, for what it was made for. You’ve been licking everything but her clit this whole time, and by now you’re feeling like you deserve a treat for keeping your impulses in check. Your treat is coming! You’ve been driving her wild with teasing strokes and the heat of your soft tongue; now it’s time to approach her clitoris.
As you move to the clitoris, lick the entire area around it until she’s very aroused. Begin by gently holding her labia open with your fingers, and starting on the side, run your tongue up and down the furrows alongside her clit, between the inner and outer lips. Gently nibble, with your mouth only, her outer and inner labia. In this crucial buildup phase, try kissing her vulva the way you might kiss her mouth. Use your whole mouth, not just an extended tongue. Then, as if licking an ice-cream cone with a soft, flat tongue, give her one long sixty-second lick. Remember: going slowly is essential. Repeat the ice-cream licks if they were well received, until she begins to melt.
Lazily circle her clit with your tongue. Keep in mind that you should never go straight for it—the clitoris is always more sensitive at first—so always lick the shaft from the sides. Some women will have a favorite side, so pay attention to her body language to see what she likes. For instance, if she rocks her pelvis or moans appreciatively, then you’ve found a good spot. You’ll also want to notice if she is responding to a hard or soft tongue: this will most likely change, but it’s important to know what feels great for her at this stage in her arousal. Pay particular attention to her body when your tongue touches her clit—if she suddenly convulses or jolts, you’ve hit the right spot, but with too much force. Does it seem like she’s quivering? That’s also a sign for you to back off. If that happens, retreat to the sides of the clitoral hood and slow your pace.
Lightly flick your tongue over the clitoral hood and shaft in side-to-side strokes. Not all women enjoy up strokes on the hood, because they expose the sensitive glans, so your best bet for a sensitive clit is always a side-to-side approach. Next, flatten your tongue and gently run it over the hood and shaft you just flicked; then return to the light flicker. This is when things will really begin to heat up for both of you: keep flicking and let her responses guide your pressure. She may want your tongue to the side and firmer, or the flickering might be driving her wild—her breathing will change, her skin will flush, her genitals may begin to swell, and her muscles will tense. Don’t stop now, whatever you do, because you’re about to get down to business.
How to Keep Your Lipstick Perfect
One issue particularly bothersome to women of the more femme persuasion, such as myself, is how to keep our lipstick in order when going down on our sisters. Fortunately, cosmetic companies have heard our cries of despair and have formulated lipsticks with what they call “kissing power.” These modern inventions (found in drugstores) stay put for up to four hours and won’t move no matter what set of lips you’re kissing. You can also find products in beauty stores called “lip set,” a liquid you brush over your own perfect lipstick application. This product is a modern miracle—it stays on for around six hours, and you can do anything with it on. Plus, you’re not stuck with the colors in the “kissing power” lines.
Tongue Techniques
No need to feel tongue-tied at the beginning of what is about to be the most important speech you’ve ever given—but it’s easy to feel that way when you get to this point and suddenly draw a blank on what to do next. Even if you don’t get stage fright easily, it’s good to have a few aces up your sleeve, so to
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