The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus by Violet Blue Page B

creatures by nature, and our mouths are naturally sexual—they talk dirty, look overtly sexual, are strong, wet, and warm, and trigger mental and physical sexual responses when stimulated. This is an intimate place on your body right out in the open for all to see. Treat it like the sex organ it is. Keep your lips soft and moist: exfoliate them with your toothbrush or a gentle scrub once a week and use good lip balm. When you brush your teeth, be sure to brush your tongue to keep it smooth, sexily pink, and appealing to look at. And smile a lot—it’s a great way to flirt, and no mouth is sexier than a smiling one. Here’s what you can do with your mouth between her thighs:
• Cover her vulva with your entire mouth.
• Nibble the outer and inner lips, or the clitoral hood.
• Use your tongue in different ways: it can be soft, light, and pointed, or it can have a focused and firm tip. Be sure not to inadvertently poke her clitoris with too much pressure.
• Learn to use the “ice-cream” lick to your advantage. Make your tongue flat and wide, and lick her vulva like a melting ice-cream cone. This can provide a great transition from one technique to another, but if it drives her wild, keep doing it. These licks can feel very good when they’re firm.
• Try sucking her clitoris. Cunnilingus is far from cocksucking, but she may enjoy having her clitoris sucked. Keep in mind, though, that it’s not for everyone. Try a gentle suction with your lips only, and also suction combined with holding and sweetly squeezing her clit for a slow second. If she’s really randy, combine the suction with your tongue gently pushing her clit in and out, side to side, or up and down, or circling it.
• Try gently taking her clit in your teeth and holding it, lightly flicking with your tongue.
• Penetrate her vagina (or anus) with your stiff tongue; this is known as tongue fucking. Not all women go crazy for it—if she’s really aroused it may not provide a firm enough stimulation—but some will enjoy it in the beginning stages of cunnilingus. Use it sparingly (unless, of course, she loves it); intersperse a series of tongue fucks with another favored technique.
• When your mouth makes full contact, try moaning appreciatively—your mouth and tongue will vibrate her vulva, a delicious sensation in itself. If you’re not shy, hum a tune.
     

Strokes and Combinations
     
A through Z and back again; by the fourth repetition I had a hand at the back of my head pushing.

 

I treat the vulva with the same care and creativity I treat my partner’s mouth when I’m kissing. You wouldn’t just lick your lover’s upper lip over and over again, would you?

    There are as many strokes to use in cunnilingus as you can imagine—literally. I’m going to suggest quite a few, but the trick is to pick some, try them in combination for a while, and then begin to focus your licks on the areas she responds to pleasurably. The strokes are the filling, the yummy, sweet part that gives your session body and length and builds her pleasure up to dizzying heights. As you try combinations of strokes, you’ll notice that she is becoming more and more turned on. You’ll also notice that she really responds when you lick her in a certain area, such as on the side of her clitoral shaft, or on the glans itself. Always keep your upper lip curled protectively over your teeth—a nip at the wrong moment is shocking. When she starts to respond to focused stimulation around her clitoris, you’ll begin your rhythm. The following strokes are your road to rhythm.
• Lick lazy circles around her clit.
• Lick side to side or up and down, nipping with your lips between directions.
• Use short, rapid upward strokes, alternated with dipping into her vagina.
• Lick in circles combined with open-mouthed embraces.
• Alternate between circles and side-to-side licks.
• Run your tongue back and forth across her inner lips, then use gentle suction on the