Get In Her Mind, Get In Her Bed by Taylor Ryan, Nick Andrews
Authors: Taylor Ryan, Nick Andrews
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her butt. It looked like she had crapped her pants. She cried all the way back to the hotel room and would not leave the room the rest of the trip. Or when she was older, about fifteen, she had a guy over she really liked, to watch a couple of movies. As she was getting up to change to the next movie she accidentally farted in the boys face. Let’s just say the guy never came back over.
Role playing is very open ended and has no boundaries. You can say you are forming a group like a bowling team. You have designated the target to be its newest member, and she is the ringer that will lead you to the league championship; or the two of you are going to run away to Mexico and open up your own bar, complete with a mariachi band and an hourly wet t-shirt contest. Whatever role you choose for her, include yourself in it. The more she can picture the two of you together in her head, the closer to reality that idea will become. It will make her laugh and give you something to talk about when you run out of things to say. Girls are drawn to guys with potential. As long as you can keep her dreaming and show her a life beyond what she currently has, she will eat up every word, and play right into your hands.
Are you starting to see how easy this is? You are taking the target out of her mundane every day life and adding excitement to it, transporting her to a place where she can be someone else and break out of her shell. She is now having a fun conversation with a guy she just met and she is intrigued by you. You have created interest and shown her that you are different than the other guys. You are worth getting to know. Most importantly you have started to build sexual chemistry. Another thing you are doing, is putting the idea in her head of the two of you being together. This is very important in terms of her letting her guard down immediately. If you create this fantasy land in which she sees herself with you, she is instantly feeling comfortable with you. This is just another way we will build sexual chemistry. This idea is powerful enough to turn a wholesome, church going girl to a sexy, leather clad, dominatrix. Again, role playing is easy. Anyone can do this, just be creative and have fun with it, she will too.
Story Telling
Story telling is another way to get to know someone. A lot of guys approach a girl and use some kind of opener and then go into Q&A. If you tell stories you can accomplishing the same thing as you would with Q&A, but without asking the same old questions she hears from every guy that approaches her. What kind of stories do you want to tell? Any story is fine but tell one that gives her information about you, something real. Here is something I would say. Maybe the girl says something about her dad selling insurance or her working at an insurance office. I used to own an insurance agency so I will tell her that. In me telling her about owning and running an insurance agency she picks up certain information about me. Not only have I given her information about me, but I have given her an opening to tell me about what she does. Now she knows what I do or what I used to do, and now I know what she does, all without boring her with common and uninteresting questions. Maybe we get to talking about family vacations or spring break. She tells me stories about her vacations and I tell her about when I went to Mexico or on a cruise in the Bahamas. You get to know about each other and each others experiences by telling stories. The important thing with story telling is that you give and get the same information you would asking questions, but you do it in a way that is not boring to her. The key to story telling is not doing all the talking. You want it to be 50/50. You tell a story and then let her tell one. Don’t just ramble on and on and then interrupt her when she is talking. Remember, you are telling stories in an effort to find out information about her, and to make her feel comfortable with you
Role playing is very open ended and has no boundaries. You can say you are forming a group like a bowling team. You have designated the target to be its newest member, and she is the ringer that will lead you to the league championship; or the two of you are going to run away to Mexico and open up your own bar, complete with a mariachi band and an hourly wet t-shirt contest. Whatever role you choose for her, include yourself in it. The more she can picture the two of you together in her head, the closer to reality that idea will become. It will make her laugh and give you something to talk about when you run out of things to say. Girls are drawn to guys with potential. As long as you can keep her dreaming and show her a life beyond what she currently has, she will eat up every word, and play right into your hands.
Are you starting to see how easy this is? You are taking the target out of her mundane every day life and adding excitement to it, transporting her to a place where she can be someone else and break out of her shell. She is now having a fun conversation with a guy she just met and she is intrigued by you. You have created interest and shown her that you are different than the other guys. You are worth getting to know. Most importantly you have started to build sexual chemistry. Another thing you are doing, is putting the idea in her head of the two of you being together. This is very important in terms of her letting her guard down immediately. If you create this fantasy land in which she sees herself with you, she is instantly feeling comfortable with you. This is just another way we will build sexual chemistry. This idea is powerful enough to turn a wholesome, church going girl to a sexy, leather clad, dominatrix. Again, role playing is easy. Anyone can do this, just be creative and have fun with it, she will too.
Story Telling
Story telling is another way to get to know someone. A lot of guys approach a girl and use some kind of opener and then go into Q&A. If you tell stories you can accomplishing the same thing as you would with Q&A, but without asking the same old questions she hears from every guy that approaches her. What kind of stories do you want to tell? Any story is fine but tell one that gives her information about you, something real. Here is something I would say. Maybe the girl says something about her dad selling insurance or her working at an insurance office. I used to own an insurance agency so I will tell her that. In me telling her about owning and running an insurance agency she picks up certain information about me. Not only have I given her information about me, but I have given her an opening to tell me about what she does. Now she knows what I do or what I used to do, and now I know what she does, all without boring her with common and uninteresting questions. Maybe we get to talking about family vacations or spring break. She tells me stories about her vacations and I tell her about when I went to Mexico or on a cruise in the Bahamas. You get to know about each other and each others experiences by telling stories. The important thing with story telling is that you give and get the same information you would asking questions, but you do it in a way that is not boring to her. The key to story telling is not doing all the talking. You want it to be 50/50. You tell a story and then let her tell one. Don’t just ramble on and on and then interrupt her when she is talking. Remember, you are telling stories in an effort to find out information about her, and to make her feel comfortable with you
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