Get In Her Mind, Get In Her Bed by Taylor Ryan, Nick Andrews Page A

and lower her guard.
     
    Another good thing about story telling is that by telling stories you will continually have chances to jump into a role playing situation. Many of the stories you or your target tell will spark ideas to dive into a role play. Let’s say she tells you a story about snorkeling when on a family vacation. You can jump right into a role play and say something like, "Oh you’re a snorkeler? We could move to Mexico and open a snorkeling operation. I will finance the operation but you have to walk around the beach dressed up in snorkeling gear." You can get as involved in the role play as you want.
     
    I refer to this next technique as advanced because if done incorrectly it can have drastic negative effects. Implanting future visualizations is a technique where you describe a possible future between you and the target. The idea behind this is to get her thinking about the two of you in a more comfortable and intimate way. If done correctly she will feel so comfortable with you that her guard will be down and you will be able to go home with her tonight.
     
    Tell her a likely event involving the two of you that could happen in the next three to six months. What this does is it gets the target to visualize a relationship with you. The more and more she sees herself with you, the more open and comfortable she feels being around you. The target starts to feel as though she actually has known you for six months, and she is comfortable with the acts of intimacy that normal couples are experienced with after six months of dating. It is best to tell stories with a great amount of detail. The more detail you provide the easier it will be for her to see the story in her head. The better the picture, the better chance you will have of her believing your story. We also want to include stories of the two of you becoming successful and wealthy. It does not matter what your current situation is. Even if you have $5 to your name and the only car you drive is the city bus, it is not relevant. Women judge you on your potential. If you make her believe that one day you will own your own business, and be worth millions, all with her by your side. She will see you as a great investment, and a man of quality.
     
    Now herein lies the danger. A story that is to far fetched, or telling too many stories, can turn the girl off and looking for a quick exit. We can’t start talking about marriage and kids after knowing her for a few hours. We want to tell fun and exciting stories.
     
    Story telling is just another tool in our arsenal. An important thing to note here, is that role playing is not story telling. In a role play you make up a fantasy land for the two of you to get lost in. The more creative, the better the role play and the more sexual chemistry you build. When story telling, you tell true stories about yourself as a way to get to know each other.
     
    Q&A
    Question and answer is the worst kind of conversation you can have with the target. We see a lot of Q&A when we go out. There is nothing wrong with Q&A, but it’s boring as hell. It’s the same thing every other guy does. “What’s your name, where are you from, what do you do, what school do you go to?” The problem with Q&A is that it feels scripted, and it comes off that way. A lot of times you get caught up in the questions you are asking and busy thinking about what you’re going ask next, that you aren’t listening to what she is saying. Plus if you ask too many questions it sounds a lot like a job interview and she will get bored with you and lose interest. We like to ask only one question, maybe two, just to get the ball rolling and give us something to play off of and go into story telling or role play. We basically use it just to get started or if we are transitioning from one story to the next. If you do find yourself asking a lot of questions, pay attention. Tilt your head to one side to show interest. Q&A should only be used as a backup for when