“front” surface since it’s the inner side closest to a lover on top or in front.
But where exactly is the G-spot? Because it’s a slang term, that’s a difficult question to answer exactly. First, there are many conflicting teachings about the size of the G-spot. Some say it’s the size of a pea, some say a bean, some say a silver dollar. Actually, the truth is the size depends upon the woman.
And where? Some say it’s 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina or near the urethral opening. Gräfenberg, whom the spot is named after, highlighted the area near the bladder at the top end of the vagina. Others direct you midway between the cervix at the vagina’s end and the pubic bone. There’s some truth in all of these conflicting descriptions.
Much of the confusion and difficulty stems from the fact that this powerful “orgasmic trigger” isn’t one well-defined organ like a male prostate gland or a female ovary.
Some believe the biological purpose of the spongy G-spot is to protect the fragile urinary canal from a hard thrusting penis when it gets engorged. Makes sense, huh?
TAKING AIM AT A MOVING TARGET
The G-spot is under the lining of the vagina’s front wall, and it’s not particularly sensitive or even noticeable without a high level of excitement. Many women report little or no feeling there at first. Some even feel initial discomfort that obviously discourages further play.
As every conscious lover knows, no two women are the same, and no one woman is the same all the time. So, unless you tune in to her unique formula in the moment, you may not feel her G-spot at all.
If all of that doesn’t make it confusing enough, there are four different kinds of female prostates. In 1999, Zaviacic published his scientific findings that illustrated how the distribution of the paraurethral glands and ducts vary from woman to woman.
In most women, he discovered the greatest density of female prostate glands was located near the urethral opening. Here are the percentages of women he found with different kinds of prostates:
% of Women Location of Glands and Ducts
70% Near the urethral opening by the vaginal opening.
15% Near the bladder at the vagina’s top end.
7% Midway back between the vaginal opening and cervix.
8% Minimal glands and ducts.
What this means is that your most erectile G-spot tissue is likely nearer the opening of your vagina. Even so, the deeper little “tail” of the meatus-type female prostate can be highly sensitive.
Of course, the G-spot of 30% of women follows a different pattern. There’s a real chance it could be deeper inside or not very excitable without long dedicated arousal. Additionally, different parts of the urethral sponge can be aroused at different times. That makes it seem as though the G-spot is moving from time to time, even within one lovemaking session.
Visualize a clock superimposed over the opening of the vagina while a woman is lying on her back. We know the G-spot appears most often at the 12 o’clock position. But sometimes, it’s found at 11 o’clock or 1 o’clock. Most sex manuals instruct us to curl a finger upward toward the vagina’s front, and reach around behind the pubic bone to find the area of the urethral sponge that’s particularly excitable. We now know that this doesn’t contact the bulk of the G-spot for most women, although it may make its deep tail feel really good.
If you don’t know which bone we’re talking about, just slide your hand from your belly button down toward your genitals. (This works for men as well.) If you press inward, you’ll feel the soft give of your tummy until somewhere around your pubic hair. When you feel the hard structure near the surface, that’s your pubic bone. From within, you can feel the underside of this floating bone by pressing up toward your belly through the vagina’s front wall.
The good news is that there is a surefire way to find the G-spot. Usually, the tissue covering the erect part of
But where exactly is the G-spot? Because it’s a slang term, that’s a difficult question to answer exactly. First, there are many conflicting teachings about the size of the G-spot. Some say it’s the size of a pea, some say a bean, some say a silver dollar. Actually, the truth is the size depends upon the woman.
And where? Some say it’s 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina or near the urethral opening. Gräfenberg, whom the spot is named after, highlighted the area near the bladder at the top end of the vagina. Others direct you midway between the cervix at the vagina’s end and the pubic bone. There’s some truth in all of these conflicting descriptions.
Much of the confusion and difficulty stems from the fact that this powerful “orgasmic trigger” isn’t one well-defined organ like a male prostate gland or a female ovary.
Some believe the biological purpose of the spongy G-spot is to protect the fragile urinary canal from a hard thrusting penis when it gets engorged. Makes sense, huh?
TAKING AIM AT A MOVING TARGET
The G-spot is under the lining of the vagina’s front wall, and it’s not particularly sensitive or even noticeable without a high level of excitement. Many women report little or no feeling there at first. Some even feel initial discomfort that obviously discourages further play.
As every conscious lover knows, no two women are the same, and no one woman is the same all the time. So, unless you tune in to her unique formula in the moment, you may not feel her G-spot at all.
If all of that doesn’t make it confusing enough, there are four different kinds of female prostates. In 1999, Zaviacic published his scientific findings that illustrated how the distribution of the paraurethral glands and ducts vary from woman to woman.
In most women, he discovered the greatest density of female prostate glands was located near the urethral opening. Here are the percentages of women he found with different kinds of prostates:
% of Women Location of Glands and Ducts
70% Near the urethral opening by the vaginal opening.
15% Near the bladder at the vagina’s top end.
7% Midway back between the vaginal opening and cervix.
8% Minimal glands and ducts.
What this means is that your most erectile G-spot tissue is likely nearer the opening of your vagina. Even so, the deeper little “tail” of the meatus-type female prostate can be highly sensitive.
Of course, the G-spot of 30% of women follows a different pattern. There’s a real chance it could be deeper inside or not very excitable without long dedicated arousal. Additionally, different parts of the urethral sponge can be aroused at different times. That makes it seem as though the G-spot is moving from time to time, even within one lovemaking session.
Visualize a clock superimposed over the opening of the vagina while a woman is lying on her back. We know the G-spot appears most often at the 12 o’clock position. But sometimes, it’s found at 11 o’clock or 1 o’clock. Most sex manuals instruct us to curl a finger upward toward the vagina’s front, and reach around behind the pubic bone to find the area of the urethral sponge that’s particularly excitable. We now know that this doesn’t contact the bulk of the G-spot for most women, although it may make its deep tail feel really good.
If you don’t know which bone we’re talking about, just slide your hand from your belly button down toward your genitals. (This works for men as well.) If you press inward, you’ll feel the soft give of your tummy until somewhere around your pubic hair. When you feel the hard structure near the surface, that’s your pubic bone. From within, you can feel the underside of this floating bone by pressing up toward your belly through the vagina’s front wall.
The good news is that there is a surefire way to find the G-spot. Usually, the tissue covering the erect part of
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