something many women do as a sign of their control. You can even masturbate yourself while he is forced to watch, but not touch.
There are many many ways to use masturbation as a punishment or a reward. If you have promised him an orgasm, but he did something to make you wish you hadn't, you can make him masturbate instead of getting to feel your hands on his genitals. Whether it is a pleasure or a discipline, masturbation can be used to give him what he deserves.
Rewards: So what rewards can you use? I think we pretty well covered that in this chapter already. Of course there are other rewards you can give him for his excellent behavior. You can let him watch his favorite TV show. You can let him give you as many orgasms as you would like. You could let him lick your boots clean, or you could have him stand in front of an open window for twenty minutes.
Rewards, like punishments, are only rewards if they arouse him or please him in some way. So whatever you do to tease or arouse him will work as a reward. It is all in how you do it.
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Chapter 10 – Humiliation Teasing
“ You said you would do anything for me.
Didn't you? Well, Bob is coming over
and I want you to give him a blow-job.”
There are so many ways to tease a chastity boy using humiliation, I don't know where to begin. I suppose I should begin by telling you exactly what kinds of things are considered to be humiliation, and how can you use them in the chastity game.
Let me start out with a warning. Humiliation can be dangerous psychologically! You have to know your partner and what kinds of things would be “over the top” in humiliation for him. That is, what works and what would be too much. Suppose your partner has a small penis and you say something like, “with that tiny thing, how can you ever please a woman?” If he is extremely sensitive about his size, you can make things worse. It would not be fun for him, and he might begin to resent you for it.
Now, if he is secure with the size of penis and you say the same thing, he might just love it. The only way to truly know is to ask him. There are other forms of humiliation that you can use that will be just as effective. For example, if you send him to a lingerie store or boutique to purchase a pair of panties for himself, he will be humiliated, but chances are you will not do any psychological damage. See the difference?
Almost everything you say can be some form of verbal humiliation. If your guy can handle verbal humiliation you have no trouble finding things to say that will humiliate him. But, as I said before, you must be careful not to damage his ego. So keep that in mind when using any form of verbal humiliation and you should be fine. Below are some examples of things you can say to him, some more humbling than others.
The other types of humiliation are what I call “physical” humiliation because it requires that one or both of you actually do something. As in sending him to the store, wearing a butt-plug, or wearing panties to work. All these things require some physical action, even if you only threaten that action. The fun part about using humiliation when other people are around is that what you say doesn't have to be true. For example, you might say, “Is that plug in your bottom bothering you?” even when he is not wearing a butt-plug. After all, he isn't about to show a perfect stranger his bottom to prove it, now is he? If he does bother to deny wearing a plug, all you have to say is, “Honey, I put it there myself.” There will be no reason to deny it at that point.
At home: These are the kinds of things you might say to your partner in the privacy of your own home, or any other time you are by yourselves, in order to embarrass or humiliate him. I am sure you can think of some other things to say as well.
Is that the best you can do? Scrub that floor, again.
If your tongue were any shorter I would just use the vibrator.
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