to humiliate your partner and have a little harmless fun. Of course, you probably wouldn't want say any of those things in front his boss, but there are still plenty of places and situations in which you can take the opportunity to say a thing or two to let him know you still care. Yes, humiliation can be fun for you both. Don't overlook the chance to use it.
Don't forget to find out what your partner likes and doesn't like in the way of humiliation. Particularly about personal aspects of his being, like penis size. It is very important that you not step over the line when teasing him verbally. You never want to damage him psychologically.
It is even a good idea to know what his fantasies are about. You can use them in humiliating him as well. After all, no one wants their deepest, darkest fantasies made public. Even in your play, you need to know if paddling him hard is what he wants, or if he can't handle that much pain. Again, you want to keep things within his boundaries as well as your own.
Working together, you can find a very happy medium in which to play the game. So have fun with it and don't over do it.
~ ~ ~
Chapter 11 – Anal Play & Milking
“ I promised you an orgasm.
You have two minutes to masturbate,
or wait until next month.”
I don't know what it is about anal play that men like so much, but many of them seem to really enjoy it. I guess it is one of those things that you either love it or you hate it. But since so many men seem to love it, I felt it necessary to include it in this book.
Anal play includes such activities as running your finger lightly across his anus to using a strap-on dildo to perform anal intercourse with him. The key to doing anal play correctly is lubrication. You will need to have plenty of lubrication handy whenever you intend to stick anything into his anus, even your finger.
There are thousands of tiny nerve endings surrounding his anus. This makes it very sensitive to both pain and pleasure. The objective, or course, is pleasure. That means using lots and lots of lubrication! Some folks say, “You can't have too much lubrication” when dealing with the anus. I agree. When you think you have enough, double it. That's the general rule.
For play, especially when leaving his chastity device in place, anal play is a great alternative to his penis. Since his penis will have far less accessibility, especially with certain devices. Start small. Use your finger (gloved of course) or a small butt-plug. As time goes by you can use larger and larger items such as realistic, penis-shaped dildos and larger plugs.
Eventually, you will want to use a strap-on dildo and harness. There are a number of reasons for this. One, it gives him more of a submissive feeling. And the role-reversal can be very exciting for the both of you. If you haven't tried it, you should. It can be a wonderful experience for the both of you.
I don't recommend experimenting with objects other than those designed for anal use. Emergency room technicians always have stories about folks who used things like light bulbs, or candles, or even small rodents. Believe me when I tell you, you don't want that kind of embarrassment. Although the ER techs would love to have more stories to tell, you don't want to end up as one of them. So stick to things you can purchase that are intended for anal use.
You can strap your guy down to the bed, on his back, and raise his legs up high to gain access to his anus. Or you can put him on his hands (or elbows) and knees if you like. When his penis is not caged, I prefer him on his back, giving me better access to both his anus and his penis at the same time. On his knees, though, has one other advantage, he cannot see what you are doing, nor the device you intend on inserting. That can give him more of a feeling of submission. So there are advantages to both positions. Of course, you can also bend him over the edge of a table or the back of a chair. It is
Don't forget to find out what your partner likes and doesn't like in the way of humiliation. Particularly about personal aspects of his being, like penis size. It is very important that you not step over the line when teasing him verbally. You never want to damage him psychologically.
It is even a good idea to know what his fantasies are about. You can use them in humiliating him as well. After all, no one wants their deepest, darkest fantasies made public. Even in your play, you need to know if paddling him hard is what he wants, or if he can't handle that much pain. Again, you want to keep things within his boundaries as well as your own.
Working together, you can find a very happy medium in which to play the game. So have fun with it and don't over do it.
~ ~ ~
Chapter 11 – Anal Play & Milking
“ I promised you an orgasm.
You have two minutes to masturbate,
or wait until next month.”
I don't know what it is about anal play that men like so much, but many of them seem to really enjoy it. I guess it is one of those things that you either love it or you hate it. But since so many men seem to love it, I felt it necessary to include it in this book.
Anal play includes such activities as running your finger lightly across his anus to using a strap-on dildo to perform anal intercourse with him. The key to doing anal play correctly is lubrication. You will need to have plenty of lubrication handy whenever you intend to stick anything into his anus, even your finger.
There are thousands of tiny nerve endings surrounding his anus. This makes it very sensitive to both pain and pleasure. The objective, or course, is pleasure. That means using lots and lots of lubrication! Some folks say, “You can't have too much lubrication” when dealing with the anus. I agree. When you think you have enough, double it. That's the general rule.
For play, especially when leaving his chastity device in place, anal play is a great alternative to his penis. Since his penis will have far less accessibility, especially with certain devices. Start small. Use your finger (gloved of course) or a small butt-plug. As time goes by you can use larger and larger items such as realistic, penis-shaped dildos and larger plugs.
Eventually, you will want to use a strap-on dildo and harness. There are a number of reasons for this. One, it gives him more of a submissive feeling. And the role-reversal can be very exciting for the both of you. If you haven't tried it, you should. It can be a wonderful experience for the both of you.
I don't recommend experimenting with objects other than those designed for anal use. Emergency room technicians always have stories about folks who used things like light bulbs, or candles, or even small rodents. Believe me when I tell you, you don't want that kind of embarrassment. Although the ER techs would love to have more stories to tell, you don't want to end up as one of them. So stick to things you can purchase that are intended for anal use.
You can strap your guy down to the bed, on his back, and raise his legs up high to gain access to his anus. Or you can put him on his hands (or elbows) and knees if you like. When his penis is not caged, I prefer him on his back, giving me better access to both his anus and his penis at the same time. On his knees, though, has one other advantage, he cannot see what you are doing, nor the device you intend on inserting. That can give him more of a feeling of submission. So there are advantages to both positions. Of course, you can also bend him over the edge of a table or the back of a chair. It is
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