leave some of his questions about you
unanswered
. In fact, it is advisable to do so. When all is said and done, a person shows you who he or she is. No one will come out and tell you. Therefore, what a person shows you with actions is the
only
language that matters.
The Dumb Fox Is True to Herself
The fox is the smaller animal, and in the animal kingdom, the smaller animal is the prey. Therefore, the fox knows it is incumbent on her to look out for her own best interests, especially in the beginning of a relationship. On the other hand, the nice girl believes everything she’s told because it sounds good, which puts her out there to get hurt. The fox knows that, in the beginning, a man is likely to “flower up” his intentions; therefore, she must stay alert.
W HAT H E
W ON’T
S AY
W HAT H E
W ILL
S AY
“I want sex and only sex, with no strings attached.”
“I’m interested in having a longterm relationship!”
“Give me sex, and I’ll pretend to be your boyfriend for a week.”
“Trust me.”
“Hey, can I rotate you with three other women, like a pitching staff?”
“You are so different.”
“Wanna be the flavor of the month?”
“I am so tired of the dating scene.”
Trivia question: Which guy scores more women: the guy who “flowers up” his intentions, or the guy who tells it like it is? The point is, if he has a hidden agenda the last thing he’ll do is spell it out for her. So it’s up to the fox to figure things out on her own.
The reason the dumb fox doesn’t reveal what she observes is that he’ll show his true colors much more quickly when he doesn’t realize he is being watched. When a man talks about himself or past relationships, he may do so as a way of helping her “get to know him.” Rather than getting into heavy question-and-answer sessions, the fox keeps the conversation light. Why? The truest things are said in jest. He’ll tell you everything you need to know in passing conversation, with a joke or an off-the-cuff remark here and there. If he’s a wolf dressed up as a sheep, his whiskers will inevitably pop out.
When the dumb fox senses something’s “just not right” with a man’s character, she does
not
bring it to his attention. The only conversation the dumb fox has is
between her two ears
. As President Lyndon B. Johnson said, “You’ve got to know when to keep your mouth shut.”
When you tell someone who may be manipulating you what you observe, he will immediately try to talk you out of it. He’ll say, “You’re insecure” or “You’re prejudging me.” Are you prejudging him? You had
better
be. The only mistake is letting him know it.
The dumb fox is self-reliant. She judges people by her own experiences. The dumb fox takes better care of herself and makes better choices because she lets time elapse and she watches to see how the man
behaves
. She trusts her observations and she trusts her animal instincts.
No hunted animal gives the “benefit of the doubt.” The fox senses danger and hightails it out of there. Never be around a person who has shown you he is a hurtful person. If he does this by accident, that’s one thing. But if he’s hurtful on purpose? Game over. You’ve learned everything you need to know.
In the beginning, have fun and go out…but keep your cards close to your vest. Most important,
take your time
. This will not only make you smart as a fox, it will help you keep your independence.
The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her
own
back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her.
It’s what every animal in the wild does to survive, so that they don’t become “din din.” Above all, the smart fox understands—and adheres to—the first law
unanswered
. In fact, it is advisable to do so. When all is said and done, a person shows you who he or she is. No one will come out and tell you. Therefore, what a person shows you with actions is the
only
language that matters.
The Dumb Fox Is True to Herself
The fox is the smaller animal, and in the animal kingdom, the smaller animal is the prey. Therefore, the fox knows it is incumbent on her to look out for her own best interests, especially in the beginning of a relationship. On the other hand, the nice girl believes everything she’s told because it sounds good, which puts her out there to get hurt. The fox knows that, in the beginning, a man is likely to “flower up” his intentions; therefore, she must stay alert.
W HAT H E
W ON’T
S AY
W HAT H E
W ILL
S AY
“I want sex and only sex, with no strings attached.”
“I’m interested in having a longterm relationship!”
“Give me sex, and I’ll pretend to be your boyfriend for a week.”
“Trust me.”
“Hey, can I rotate you with three other women, like a pitching staff?”
“You are so different.”
“Wanna be the flavor of the month?”
“I am so tired of the dating scene.”
Trivia question: Which guy scores more women: the guy who “flowers up” his intentions, or the guy who tells it like it is? The point is, if he has a hidden agenda the last thing he’ll do is spell it out for her. So it’s up to the fox to figure things out on her own.
The reason the dumb fox doesn’t reveal what she observes is that he’ll show his true colors much more quickly when he doesn’t realize he is being watched. When a man talks about himself or past relationships, he may do so as a way of helping her “get to know him.” Rather than getting into heavy question-and-answer sessions, the fox keeps the conversation light. Why? The truest things are said in jest. He’ll tell you everything you need to know in passing conversation, with a joke or an off-the-cuff remark here and there. If he’s a wolf dressed up as a sheep, his whiskers will inevitably pop out.
When the dumb fox senses something’s “just not right” with a man’s character, she does
not
bring it to his attention. The only conversation the dumb fox has is
between her two ears
. As President Lyndon B. Johnson said, “You’ve got to know when to keep your mouth shut.”
When you tell someone who may be manipulating you what you observe, he will immediately try to talk you out of it. He’ll say, “You’re insecure” or “You’re prejudging me.” Are you prejudging him? You had
better
be. The only mistake is letting him know it.
The dumb fox is self-reliant. She judges people by her own experiences. The dumb fox takes better care of herself and makes better choices because she lets time elapse and she watches to see how the man
behaves
. She trusts her observations and she trusts her animal instincts.
No hunted animal gives the “benefit of the doubt.” The fox senses danger and hightails it out of there. Never be around a person who has shown you he is a hurtful person. If he does this by accident, that’s one thing. But if he’s hurtful on purpose? Game over. You’ve learned everything you need to know.
In the beginning, have fun and go out…but keep your cards close to your vest. Most important,
take your time
. This will not only make you smart as a fox, it will help you keep your independence.
The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her
own
back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her.
It’s what every animal in the wild does to survive, so that they don’t become “din din.” Above all, the smart fox understands—and adheres to—the first law
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