Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More by Lainie Speiser Page B

if I cut in?” Sit on the outside, putting the other woman in the middle and start fondling and kissing her, too. While you are working on her, reach over and put your hand on his lap and see where that goes. If she takes your hand and puts it on his crotch, then it’s perfectly acceptable to start touching and working on his dick.
    They could have a relationship where he is in charge and he will tell you to touch his wife or girlfriend. When you do, say to her, “You’ve got beautiful breasts. Could we both suck your nipples together?” Or again, they might say that to you. It’s sort of a game of “Mother, May I?” in the beginning, but once things get rolling, you should feel comfortable doing what comes naturally.
    They may be looking at you as this tasty treat for them both to devour, they both like women and they like to enjoy them together. Lay back and let them work you over as they both suck on your nipples. As they spoil you, touch them both at the same time—you’re here to enjoy what it’s like to be with both a man and a woman, so reaching down and fingering her while stroking him is a great way to go. Show them that you’re there for the both of them. Have him squat over you and suck him while he’s facing his partner who is going down on you. He’ll love watching her go down on you while you take his load in your mouth.
    Or the two of you can work over his lady, both of you sucking her tits and rubbing her clit. While he pumps her doggy style, have her head buried deep in your pussy, and when she’s kneeled in front of her man sucking him off, hold her from behind, pulling her hair out of her face and kissing her neck. Or while she is deep-throating him, lay down beneath her and go down on her while fingering yourself.
    Tip
    Too Many Rules?
    Here’s the thing, you could structure your threesome very rigidly—you fuck me, then you fuck her, then she can blow you, then you can go down on me, but she can’t touch me, and I don’t want to touch her, etc. This is all well and good—after all, it is about comfort zones—but do try to abandon yourself to sexual chaos at least a little, and just let what feels good feel good!
     

     
    If he goes for penetration, have her squat over your face so he can watch you eat her out and hopefully you can all come at around the same time. You can get really raunchy and stand her up while he licks her pussy and you lick her ass, both of you working a finger on each side of her until she comes or until you get her opened and ready for anal sex. In that case, while he pumps her ass, you can keep finger-banging her, licking her clit, or she can go down on you while he’s working her ass.
    Sit down against her and play with her tits while he goes down on her or pumps her. And you can do the same with him sitting up and you sitting on his cock in backward cowgirl position, facing her while she plays with your gyrating body. Or she may, in turn, straddle you while you are banging him this way and you are both bouncing and bucking against each other as she takes turns kissing him and then kissing you. And when she makes you come with her mouth, tell her to kiss her man so he can taste the pussy juice in her mouth and on her lips. This small act can be heavenly for a man; remember he’s having sex with two women, one he’s had sex with a lot and the other whom he’s never had sex with before. You’re encouraging her to kiss him shows them that you’re into the both of them together as well, which shows you play nice.

     
    A three-way is a dance in which you should let the couple or the woman lead. In the best instances, you all get worked up at the same speed and are satiated at the same time.
     
     
    True Story: Cynthia and Sex in the City
     
    Cynthia, an attractive and stylish New York City woman in her early thirties, works as a hostess in a restaurant and lounge, and has therefore ushered more than her fair share of tasty couples in and out of the