Threesomes: For Couples Who Want to Know More by Lainie Speiser Page A

haven’t had a three-way with my husband,” Tammy says. “I’m sure it’s something we will do further down the road. We’ve talked about it, but it’s not at the top of the list. I guess it’s because once you do this, you can’t take it back.” But Tammy’s very first ménage à trois was with a married couple, swingers whom she met through a mutual friend.
    Tammy had always been bisexual in her heart, but was never brave enough to pursue it. She was hung up on conventions and wondered whether she might be a lesbian. The wife of the couple Tammy first had a three-way with was a friend of Tammy’s girlfriend, and through talking, they discovered that they had more in common than they ever hoped to have. One was a woman who wanted to make love with another woman, and the other was a woman who enjoyed making love to other women when her husband was watching.
    “Her husband was definitely a good-looking guy, but I was mainly there for her,” Tammy admits. “She’s the one who asked me out, and I was much more attracted to her than to him.”
    A total novice to the scene, Tammy didn’t know what to expect, and the couple must have been sensitive to her nerves and reservations, because the three went out a few times without doing anything at all.
    “We just had a beer, hung out, and discussed ground rules, though there really weren’t any. She was fine with her husband doing anything with me, and I had a green light for everything too. And once we were familiar, they were just plain about it and asked me, so when would you like this to happen?” As soon as possible, thought Tammy, whose mouth watered over at thought of taking her very first breast into her mouth and licking her first engorged clit. She came over to their house soon after, they had some drinks but didn’t get drunk, enjoyed some benign chatter, and then got to it.
    The wife suggested that a good ice-breaker would be for she and Tammy to enjoy a shower together while her hubby watched. “He let her take the lead and let us go for it. He just watched while we kissed and fooled around in the shower.” The hot water and the sliding soapy sudsing of each other definitely were a great beginning for Tammy, as she rubbed her taut body up and down against the wife’s, enjoying her soft lips and tongue and feeling herself get very wet, very quickly. The couple toweled off their pretty guest and brought her into their bedroom.
    “It was a great experience,” Tammy says. “I didn’t feel weird about it at all, and I might have gotten more into it than they expected. They were wonderful. They knew how to please each other. But definitely my main reason for doing it was because I wanted to be with her. Her husband was just a bonus.” A bonus Tammy did appreciate. She remembers eating out his wife while being screwed from behind as one of the most amazing sensations she has ever experienced.
    “Every sense is being taken care of, everyone was involved,” she says. “The goal of being with a couple is to keep everyone satisfied in the mix.”
    Tammy has also had threesomes with girlfriends picking up men at parties or bars, and they have joked that the lucky guy in question was their “stand-in penis.” Tammy says having threesomes is fun because of the exhilarating feeling of being able to call all the shots. “I mean what’s the guy going to say? He knows he should just shut up and be happy to be there at all!
     

     
Positioning Couples
     
    A three-way is a dance in which you should let the couple or the woman lead. All couples are unique, so let them make the first moves, and in a short time you will get the gist of their rhythm and their games so you can catch on and play along.
    When you return from freshening up in the bathroom, you might walk in on the two of them sitting on the couch kissing and fondling each other. Don’t take this as a sign that you should hang back but sit down next to them and say, “That looks pretty good, mind