ends up, one between the elbows and the other between the hands.
4. Tie the two ends together in a simple overhand knot, just as you would to start your shoelace tie. If the scarf is slippery, you can tie one more overhand knot.
THE SIMPLE SCARF SCENE
Ingredients
you and your lover
2 long scarves
your favorite sex toys, lube, safer sex supplies, and whatever else you enjoy in your usual sex life
Action
Bring the scarf out long before the sex fun starts. Use it to tease and suggest all the fun both of you will have later.
The top gently blindfolds the bottom. Make out!
Tie the wrists together above her head, behind her head, or behind her back. It’s up to you and how you like to shag.
Shag! Slow and sweet or rough and wild, it’s up to the two of you.
Give aftercare lovingly.
Illustration 5.2. Midori’s dildo harness
Midori’s Dildo Harness
I invented this harness because I got tired of ill-fitting commercial harnesses. This is a fantastic harness—it’s secure, easy to clean, fits anyone, and travels well. Men can use it to sport a second cock above the one that they grew themselves!
Equipment
1 favorite dildo with flanged base; 2 scarves (suggested length: multiply hip measurement x 1.5. Example: 40” hips x 1.5 = 60” scarves)
Directions
1. Take Scarf A and make a loose overhand knot (which I refer to below as “That Knot”) at its midpoint.
Take Scarf B, place through That Knot, bisecting Scarf B.
Scarf B will now have two hanging ends of equal length.
Insert the dildo into That Knot.
Tighten Scarf A and That Knot firmly around the dildo.
2. Tie Scarf A snug and low around the hips. It’s easiest to tie this in front, with the dildo at the back, and then turn the scarf around. Very important that it be snug.
Place the dildo in the desired position on the body.
3. Take one end of Scarf B, hanging from the dildo, and pass it between the legs and under the butt cheeks, ending near the hip bone. Tie onto Scarf A near the hip bone.
Repeat with the remaining end of Scarf B.
Test the harness all over for security.
Illustration 5.3. Scarf sex sling
Sex Sling
Equipment
2 short scarves and 1 long scarf
Directions
1. Take one short scarf and tie a band around one thigh, just above the knee. This should be snug but not tight enough to hamper circulation.
Do the same with the second short scarf on the other thigh.
Tie one end of the long scarf onto the right thigh band.
Have the bottom sit on her butt with her legs out and
knees up. Have the bottom hug her knees. This is important for a fabulous shagging position and comfort later.
Lead the free part of the long scarf from the right thigh over the right shoulder and pass under the left arm.
Pass the long scarf under the left thigh band and pull through fully.
Lead the remaining length of the long scarf from the left thigh over the left shoulder and pass under the right arm.
Pass the long scarf end under the right thigh band and tie off with a simple overhand knot.
The long scarf should make an “X” pattern on her back.
2. Have her let go of her knees. Gently lean her back. Her legs will be held up and apart by the scarves.
You can easily move her back and forth and up and down by holding the long scarf where it attaches to the thigh bands.
Add the wrist tie to this and you have a fun and easy sex bondage setup.
Other Items
• Sleep masks: Best stealth blindfold that you can take anywhere.
• Leather belts: Strong leather belts with many holes to adjust positions are the best.
• Cling wrap: Ordinary plastic wrap used in the kitchen makes for fantastically easy and fast bondage. No knots or buckles needed. Use safety scissors to remove it quickly or to create holes when you want access to your lover’s good bits. Slip a vibrator or an ice cube between layers of plastic wrap, just on the right spot, and drive him crazy.
TOOLS: LEATHER AND METAL
Leather
Leather fetters are truly classic bondage toys and they’re fodder for many people’s
4. Tie the two ends together in a simple overhand knot, just as you would to start your shoelace tie. If the scarf is slippery, you can tie one more overhand knot.
THE SIMPLE SCARF SCENE
Ingredients
you and your lover
2 long scarves
your favorite sex toys, lube, safer sex supplies, and whatever else you enjoy in your usual sex life
Action
Bring the scarf out long before the sex fun starts. Use it to tease and suggest all the fun both of you will have later.
The top gently blindfolds the bottom. Make out!
Tie the wrists together above her head, behind her head, or behind her back. It’s up to you and how you like to shag.
Shag! Slow and sweet or rough and wild, it’s up to the two of you.
Give aftercare lovingly.
Illustration 5.2. Midori’s dildo harness
Midori’s Dildo Harness
I invented this harness because I got tired of ill-fitting commercial harnesses. This is a fantastic harness—it’s secure, easy to clean, fits anyone, and travels well. Men can use it to sport a second cock above the one that they grew themselves!
Equipment
1 favorite dildo with flanged base; 2 scarves (suggested length: multiply hip measurement x 1.5. Example: 40” hips x 1.5 = 60” scarves)
Directions
1. Take Scarf A and make a loose overhand knot (which I refer to below as “That Knot”) at its midpoint.
Take Scarf B, place through That Knot, bisecting Scarf B.
Scarf B will now have two hanging ends of equal length.
Insert the dildo into That Knot.
Tighten Scarf A and That Knot firmly around the dildo.
2. Tie Scarf A snug and low around the hips. It’s easiest to tie this in front, with the dildo at the back, and then turn the scarf around. Very important that it be snug.
Place the dildo in the desired position on the body.
3. Take one end of Scarf B, hanging from the dildo, and pass it between the legs and under the butt cheeks, ending near the hip bone. Tie onto Scarf A near the hip bone.
Repeat with the remaining end of Scarf B.
Test the harness all over for security.
Illustration 5.3. Scarf sex sling
Sex Sling
Equipment
2 short scarves and 1 long scarf
Directions
1. Take one short scarf and tie a band around one thigh, just above the knee. This should be snug but not tight enough to hamper circulation.
Do the same with the second short scarf on the other thigh.
Tie one end of the long scarf onto the right thigh band.
Have the bottom sit on her butt with her legs out and
knees up. Have the bottom hug her knees. This is important for a fabulous shagging position and comfort later.
Lead the free part of the long scarf from the right thigh over the right shoulder and pass under the left arm.
Pass the long scarf under the left thigh band and pull through fully.
Lead the remaining length of the long scarf from the left thigh over the left shoulder and pass under the right arm.
Pass the long scarf end under the right thigh band and tie off with a simple overhand knot.
The long scarf should make an “X” pattern on her back.
2. Have her let go of her knees. Gently lean her back. Her legs will be held up and apart by the scarves.
You can easily move her back and forth and up and down by holding the long scarf where it attaches to the thigh bands.
Add the wrist tie to this and you have a fun and easy sex bondage setup.
Other Items
• Sleep masks: Best stealth blindfold that you can take anywhere.
• Leather belts: Strong leather belts with many holes to adjust positions are the best.
• Cling wrap: Ordinary plastic wrap used in the kitchen makes for fantastically easy and fast bondage. No knots or buckles needed. Use safety scissors to remove it quickly or to create holes when you want access to your lover’s good bits. Slip a vibrator or an ice cube between layers of plastic wrap, just on the right spot, and drive him crazy.
TOOLS: LEATHER AND METAL
Leather
Leather fetters are truly classic bondage toys and they’re fodder for many people’s
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