The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue Page A

just like his very own brand of ejaculate, and there’s only one way to find out if it’s to your liking.
    The taste of a man being subject to the individual’s erotic palate, many fellatio fans enjoy the taste of come and like its distinctive texture. After all, it is the tangible reward for earnest efforts, and many who like it view it in an almost romantic, sometimes fetishistic light. It can be a powerful aphrodisiac, too—the substance itself or simply the concept of a man coming in your mouth can be a powerful turn-on. I’ve illustrated the similarities come has to several different foods, but in truth there is really nothing like it. It is the genuine article; salty or sweet, thick or thin, a man’s come is the part of his orgasm that shares part of him with you.
    Some men revel in their ejaculate and feel emotionally good about sharing it with you, or eroticize sharing it with you—it turns them on. A man might feel hurt or pangs of rejection if you display distaste or disgust, while some men don’t care, and others may dislike it as well. You never know unless you ask.
For some reason, I could never swallow. I’d think that I should, especially when I was in my last long-term relationship, because you’re “supposed” to do that for someone you love.
    As an earnest apprentice to the arts of fellatio, take your time getting used to everything that accompanies ejaculation, including the final result, the come itself. Take it in stages: the moment of orgasm, the contractions, and the come will become more comfortable to you as you experience them, at your own pace. When you want to find out if you like come in your mouth, or if you want to try to like it, start by first tasting it from another body part. Have him come in your hand or on another body part, then discreetly taste a little on your fingertips. This way you can try it before ending up with a mouthful of something you may not like, and you can sample it in a way that will spare his feelings if you don’t like it. You can repeat this method until you gradually become more comfortable with the taste, smell, and texture. As you become more comfortable, you can aim him onto your lips or tongue. Eroticize the process—don’t forget you’re doing this because it’s hot for both of you. Experiment with your own arousal levels as you test out your comfort; you can masturbate or fantasize to turn yourself on. Watching porn might feed the fires of fantasy and fellatio with facial or oral ejaculation. See chapter 12, “Independent Study, ” for recommendations.

    Close Shave
    by Alison Tyler
     
    The thing is, he shouldn’t have teased me.
    “Little kitty’s getting furry,” Tom said, warm fingers wandering down under the leopard-print sheets to find my usually well-pruned pussy. It had been a long week, and I’d skipped my routine waxing appointment in favor of a much-needed nap. But it was-n’t as if I’d grown a beard. I was just a little fuzzier between my thighs than normal.
    “I guess the honeymoon’s over,” he continued, feigning sadness.
    That’s when I snapped. “You’re pretty furry, too,” I told him, reaching down to firmly twine my own fingers in his short, blonde curls. “Maybe you should consider a visit to Darlene.”
    “And Darlene is—?”
    “My waxer. She does men, too, you know.”
    “Bet she does,” Tom smiled. “I’ll bet she does lots of men.”
    “I’m serious,” I told him. “Half her clients are male.”
    He pushed up on one arm to look at me, stunned by the thought. “They wax their pubic hair?”
    Yes, I honestly know that most of the men who go to Darlene want their back hair removed, or their chests to be as smooth as a Versace boy-toy model, but I took advantage of Tom’s naïveté. As I said, he’d been teasing me. “Uh, huh,” I told him, nodding animatedly to show how truthful I was being. “Maybe you should try it.”
    “Hot wax down there? I don’t think so.”
    “She uses cold wax,