Mastering Multiple Position Sex by Eric M Garrison Page A
Authors: Eric M Garrison
Tags: Health & Fitness, Sexuality
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can warm up in water. You could have massage oils on hand with various natural essences. Add to the list with your favorite music, a blindfold, and some old neckties for light bondage or to brush over your partner’s body. Reacquaint yourself with your partner’s erogenous zones and devise various ways to stimulate them. And if you don’t remember them all, ask.
Warm-Up
The following activities are repeated so that both sexes get to enjoy similar treatments. To ensure that the man is as hard as possible and ready to penetrate her, she will please him prior to the first position.
While she lies on her stomach, pick an object and move it over her body, making sure not to miss any of her erogenous zones. Perhaps a feather across her ass, an ice cube in her vagina, her feet in your mouth.
Paint her erogenous zones with melted chocolate or a favorite jam that you have submerged in the jar in warm water. Rub her with essential oils, trace a rose down her back and between her legs. When you have stimulated her backside long enough, she rolls over, and invites you to explore her front in the same way. Maybe she is blindfolded—with her permission, of course—to heighten her other senses. Removing or restricting one of the senses can be erotic, but it can also be frightening, so make a point of asking before you do. Moreover, whenever you experiment beyond the realm of vanilla sex, offer a safe word—a word that you would probably not use during sex—that means STOP as soon as it is uttered. Once you establish that level of trust, the evening’s events can feel all the more erotic.
When her erogenous zones have been explored and stimulated, and when both parties agree that it is time to move on, then they can switch: She can explore his back and front, from top to bottom, trying to incorporate as many of the previous lessons as possible. If you find yourself at a loss and needing ideas for how to explore and bring pleasure to his body, invest in some sex dice (see Resources on page 189 ). By rolling for a body part on one and for a sexual activity on the other, you’ve got endless ways to get the sparks going.
In the end, he will be on his back, ready for the next position, and both should be wet from saliva, melting ice, or their own bodily fluids—the latter being the penultimate goal!
Tantalizing Tidbit: Hot Wax
Wax is commonly used on surfboards or as a hair removal aid, but it also comes up in questions from clients eager to try out something new without going too far. So, without writing a treatise on hot wax, let me give you a few tips. First, to foil any allergic reactions, look for odorless, colorless candles. Next, the temperature of the wax when it hits the skin will depend on how high the candle is held: Wax dripped onto his back from 6 inches (15 cm) will feel hotter than if it is dripped from 6 feet (1.8 m). To gauge the temperature, drip some wax onto the top of your foot from various heights. Finally, avoid parts of your body that you would never want to have wax in, such as the ears and eyes. This can be a safe way to explore the realms of light pain and heavy pleasure; just be mindful of the safe part. Be careful when you play with wax and fire or somebody could get burned.
“Try to generate a mixture of warm and cold. You could lick her skin (make your initials) and then blow on it for a cool sensation.”
POSITION 1: Pretzel Sticks
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From a distance, this may look simply like woman on top, but there are a few “twists” that earn this position its name and erotic characteristics. The thrusts are slow and shallow, and by now you know what that means: It appeals to the first third of her vagina. It also leaves room for ample leg touches, clitoral stimulation, and a luxurious pace that allows both parties to focus on everything that’s going on.
Straddle him, so that he can enter you while you’re on top. Lean forward, as your feet go back toward his and inside his legs. Press your
Warm-Up
The following activities are repeated so that both sexes get to enjoy similar treatments. To ensure that the man is as hard as possible and ready to penetrate her, she will please him prior to the first position.
While she lies on her stomach, pick an object and move it over her body, making sure not to miss any of her erogenous zones. Perhaps a feather across her ass, an ice cube in her vagina, her feet in your mouth.
Paint her erogenous zones with melted chocolate or a favorite jam that you have submerged in the jar in warm water. Rub her with essential oils, trace a rose down her back and between her legs. When you have stimulated her backside long enough, she rolls over, and invites you to explore her front in the same way. Maybe she is blindfolded—with her permission, of course—to heighten her other senses. Removing or restricting one of the senses can be erotic, but it can also be frightening, so make a point of asking before you do. Moreover, whenever you experiment beyond the realm of vanilla sex, offer a safe word—a word that you would probably not use during sex—that means STOP as soon as it is uttered. Once you establish that level of trust, the evening’s events can feel all the more erotic.
When her erogenous zones have been explored and stimulated, and when both parties agree that it is time to move on, then they can switch: She can explore his back and front, from top to bottom, trying to incorporate as many of the previous lessons as possible. If you find yourself at a loss and needing ideas for how to explore and bring pleasure to his body, invest in some sex dice (see Resources on page 189 ). By rolling for a body part on one and for a sexual activity on the other, you’ve got endless ways to get the sparks going.
In the end, he will be on his back, ready for the next position, and both should be wet from saliva, melting ice, or their own bodily fluids—the latter being the penultimate goal!
Tantalizing Tidbit: Hot Wax
Wax is commonly used on surfboards or as a hair removal aid, but it also comes up in questions from clients eager to try out something new without going too far. So, without writing a treatise on hot wax, let me give you a few tips. First, to foil any allergic reactions, look for odorless, colorless candles. Next, the temperature of the wax when it hits the skin will depend on how high the candle is held: Wax dripped onto his back from 6 inches (15 cm) will feel hotter than if it is dripped from 6 feet (1.8 m). To gauge the temperature, drip some wax onto the top of your foot from various heights. Finally, avoid parts of your body that you would never want to have wax in, such as the ears and eyes. This can be a safe way to explore the realms of light pain and heavy pleasure; just be mindful of the safe part. Be careful when you play with wax and fire or somebody could get burned.
“Try to generate a mixture of warm and cold. You could lick her skin (make your initials) and then blow on it for a cool sensation.”
POSITION 1: Pretzel Sticks
----
From a distance, this may look simply like woman on top, but there are a few “twists” that earn this position its name and erotic characteristics. The thrusts are slow and shallow, and by now you know what that means: It appeals to the first third of her vagina. It also leaves room for ample leg touches, clitoral stimulation, and a luxurious pace that allows both parties to focus on everything that’s going on.
Straddle him, so that he can enter you while you’re on top. Lean forward, as your feet go back toward his and inside his legs. Press your
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