many years I wondered why my father or grandparents didnât take us to meet our Virginia relatives. But Iâve had my driverâs license for over twenty years now, and Iâve never gone either. Now that I have a child of my own, I find myself more interested in the gossamer webs of kinship. So I decide to fly to Tennessee, leave Sara with my parents, and at last drive to southwest Virginia to meet some of these strangers who reputedly share my genes.
After I arrive at my parentsâ house, my grandmotherâs silver Cadillac materializes in the driveway like the coupe of Cruella De Vil. I go out to greet her. Her frosted perm is afrizzle, but she says nothing. She believes that cultivated people should communicate in ultrasonic squeaks, like bats. And she does get her point across: she doesnât want me to visit her childhood stomping grounds. But I donât know why.
She slides out of her car. As I hug her, I can tell that sheâs lost weight. Encased in mink, she feels like a bear emerging from hibernation after a long winterâs nap. Iâve heard through the grapevine that the Virginia Club is appalled by my first novel,
Kinflicks
. Itâs bawdy and contains some vulgar language. It also implicitly criticizes Tennessee Eastman, Kingsportâs sugar teat, for polluting the townâs air and water. No one has uttered a word about the book to my grandmother, in keeping with the old southern dictum, âIf you canât be kind, be vague.â
Looking me up and down, my grandmother says, âYou know, your fatherâs a wonderful man.â
âYes, maâam, he is.â I glance at her quizzically.
âHe never has a bad word to say about you!â
She sweeps inside to greet Sara, leaving me standing in the driveway feeling as though Iâve just been slapped.
My fatherâs response to
Kinflicks
was, with an amused smile, âI ought to take you out to the woodshed.â
But my friend Nellie reports that heâs written on a slip of paper the amount of money for which the paperback rights sold and pinned it inside his suit jacket. Whenever people bring up the book at parties, he just opens his jacket and flashes the amount at them to shut them up.
I soak my corn bread in the liquid from my soup beans at a cafeteria in Clintwood, Virginia. Across from me sit my fatherâs schoolteacher first cousins, Vonda and Zella. Iâm trying to figure out why my grandmother has never introduced us. They seem delightful in every way.
Iâm intrigued by their names, but they have no ancestral explanation for them. Their parents just liked the sounds. This isnât uncommon in our region. Some of my relatives Iâve never met are named Arbutus, Nicatie, Bluford, Darkus, Ordealy, Perlina, Orbra, Bureta, Ancil, Rebeal. One is even named Spicie Dewdrop. And Iâve heard of girls in Riverview called Formica Dinette and Placenta Sue.
Vonda tells me about a road trip another cousin took with my grandmother. Several hours from home my grandmother realized that sheâd forgotten her glasses.
When they checked out of their hotel the next morning, my grandmother said to the desk clerk, âSir, I know that your guests must sometimes leave their eyeglasses in their rooms?â
âYes, maâam,â he said, âplenty do. We save them in a box in case they come back for them.â
My grandmother explained her plight. She proposed borrowing an abandoned pair to use on her trip, which sheâd return to him on the way home. He pulled out the box of glasses. She tried some on, picked a pair she liked, and continued down the road. Vonda marvels at my grandmotherâs resourcefulness, insisting there has never been a problem she couldnât solve.
{Kinflicks
may be the first.)
A jury arrives at the cafeteria from the courthouse across the street. Our waitress explains that the case theyâre hearing involves a football star at the local