yesterday. Don't allow him to do something today that, if he does it again, you will punish him for. You must maintain a high standard of behavior and it is up to you to make sure that he understands that.
The following is a short list of things that you can do to help you keep your partner in line. Using your own imagination, I am sure you can come up with a few of your own as well. Don't forget to make the punishment fit the crime, whenever possible. And above all, don't make it something that he might find peasant! You will only succeed in teaching him that he can get pleasure by misbehaving. That's a VERY BAD message to send him!
Spanking or paddling: Over the knee (OKT) spanking is a good one, although, some men think that is more of a fun thing to do, and you may want to keep it that way. If your partner is too large to bend over your knee, you can always have him bend over a table, a chair, a footstool, or even just lay on the bed. I don't recommend tying him down, however. He needs to learn to take his punishment without having to be restrained.
Kneeling or Standing in a Corner: Have him kneel somewhere that you can watch him, but that he won't be the center of your attention. It's always best if he is in the same room with you where you can easily glance in his direction, but so that you are not constantly looking at him. After all, punishment is not for his pleasure and constantly watching him can bring him a small amount of pleasure. Place him in a corner of the room, perhaps behind you while you watch television or something. Don't give him any special attention. If he speaks, remind him to be silent or his time will begin all over. Some folks will place a few grains of uncooked rice on the floor for him to kneel on as an added reminder to obey. But you can do it any way you like.
Writing Sentences: We already covered this one, but I just wanted to remind you that you can use it for just about any disciplinary problem you have. Most people don't like repetitive writing because their hands do get tired and sore.
Busy Work: This can be just about anything that doesn't really accomplish much, or that needs doing and is simply tedious. For example, have him empty all the kitchen cabinets and then reorganize them. Have him empty a drawer or all the drawers in one room and then put everything back neatly. He could scrub the kitchen floor on his hands and knees (with a toothbrush if you like). Clean out the garage, it's been needing it for some time anyway. I think you get the idea.
Restraint: Tie his hands behind his back and make him stand in one place for thirty minutes or so, without moving. Bind him to a chair, a bed, a door, or just make him sit somewhere (bound) that is not comfortable.
No Supper: There is no reason you can't simply send him to bed without supper, or sex for that matter. It won't kill him to miss one meal, but it might teach him a lesson.
Withhold Sex: I know, I told you that was not a good way to punish your mate, but considering that he should now be getting a great deal more sexual attention than he ever has before, it just might be a good discipline for him. You might want to reserve this one for those times when asks (or begs) for an orgasm. Just as a reminder that YOU are in charge of all the sex that happens between you.
Humiliation: In the last chapter I will cover a great many things you can do to humiliate your partner, if you (or he) are into that kind of thing. Personally, I enjoy it. So does my husband. If you are going to use humiliation, I suggest you do it judiciously. That is, never do anything that would jeopardize your relationship, and never do anything that he might enjoy too much. The objective is to teach him a lesson. So make sure you are doing that. For example, if you catch him masturbating or viewing porn on the Internet, you might make him masturbate for you. You can always, control how fast or slow he does it. You can demean him for having done whatever it
The following is a short list of things that you can do to help you keep your partner in line. Using your own imagination, I am sure you can come up with a few of your own as well. Don't forget to make the punishment fit the crime, whenever possible. And above all, don't make it something that he might find peasant! You will only succeed in teaching him that he can get pleasure by misbehaving. That's a VERY BAD message to send him!
Spanking or paddling: Over the knee (OKT) spanking is a good one, although, some men think that is more of a fun thing to do, and you may want to keep it that way. If your partner is too large to bend over your knee, you can always have him bend over a table, a chair, a footstool, or even just lay on the bed. I don't recommend tying him down, however. He needs to learn to take his punishment without having to be restrained.
Kneeling or Standing in a Corner: Have him kneel somewhere that you can watch him, but that he won't be the center of your attention. It's always best if he is in the same room with you where you can easily glance in his direction, but so that you are not constantly looking at him. After all, punishment is not for his pleasure and constantly watching him can bring him a small amount of pleasure. Place him in a corner of the room, perhaps behind you while you watch television or something. Don't give him any special attention. If he speaks, remind him to be silent or his time will begin all over. Some folks will place a few grains of uncooked rice on the floor for him to kneel on as an added reminder to obey. But you can do it any way you like.
Writing Sentences: We already covered this one, but I just wanted to remind you that you can use it for just about any disciplinary problem you have. Most people don't like repetitive writing because their hands do get tired and sore.
Busy Work: This can be just about anything that doesn't really accomplish much, or that needs doing and is simply tedious. For example, have him empty all the kitchen cabinets and then reorganize them. Have him empty a drawer or all the drawers in one room and then put everything back neatly. He could scrub the kitchen floor on his hands and knees (with a toothbrush if you like). Clean out the garage, it's been needing it for some time anyway. I think you get the idea.
Restraint: Tie his hands behind his back and make him stand in one place for thirty minutes or so, without moving. Bind him to a chair, a bed, a door, or just make him sit somewhere (bound) that is not comfortable.
No Supper: There is no reason you can't simply send him to bed without supper, or sex for that matter. It won't kill him to miss one meal, but it might teach him a lesson.
Withhold Sex: I know, I told you that was not a good way to punish your mate, but considering that he should now be getting a great deal more sexual attention than he ever has before, it just might be a good discipline for him. You might want to reserve this one for those times when asks (or begs) for an orgasm. Just as a reminder that YOU are in charge of all the sex that happens between you.
Humiliation: In the last chapter I will cover a great many things you can do to humiliate your partner, if you (or he) are into that kind of thing. Personally, I enjoy it. So does my husband. If you are going to use humiliation, I suggest you do it judiciously. That is, never do anything that would jeopardize your relationship, and never do anything that he might enjoy too much. The objective is to teach him a lesson. So make sure you are doing that. For example, if you catch him masturbating or viewing porn on the Internet, you might make him masturbate for you. You can always, control how fast or slow he does it. You can demean him for having done whatever it
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