was he did and make fun of him while he stands there masturbating for you. If done right, humiliation can be a good form of discipline. But making him strip in the middle of the town square won't work unless your objective is to get him arrested for a misdemeanor. I suppose that might work in extreme cases.
Cross Dressing: If your partner is NOT into dressing up like a woman, this can be a good discipline. Simply dress him up in whatever women's clothing you can find that will fit him and take him out on the town. Assuming he hates the idea, perhaps he will learn something from it. Besides, he cannot be arrested simply for wearing women's clothing in public.
Physical Pain: Besides spanking or paddling, there are a number of ways to cause your partner a little pain without causing him any harm. You can always place clamps or clothespins on his nipples, his balls, his tongue, or anywhere else you think appropriate. You can apply ice to his genitals, or put a mentholated cream on his anus or genitals. Be sure to make him wear something snug to aid in the heat generation. You could even poke him repeatedly with a toothpick or wooden kabob skewer, a bit harder than when you are teasing him with it. You could use a shoe string to bind his genitals tightly for a short while, until he has learned his lesson.
There are literally thousands of things you can do if want to. Just put your imagination to work and I am sure will come up with some of your own. Remember, the point is to correct his behavior. Always make sure that he understands that while he is being punished or disciplined. Just because he is being punished is no reason you can't have fun. So be creative and enjoy it when you can. There will be plenty of times when you won't be able to enjoy it because of the circumstances under which he must be punished. That first time may be hard for you, but if you are determined to maintain proper discipline, you have to do what you have to do.
Be strong, and he will thank you for it.
~ ~ ~
Chapter 13 : CBT For Fun & Punishment
Cock and Ball Torture can take on many forms. It can be used for many different reasons, as well. Perhaps you enjoy tormenting your partner because you have a sadistic streak that just needs an outlet. Maybe you want to use it as a form of punishment. Or, just maybe, you do it because your partner enjoys it and you want to keep him happy (and aroused). Maybe you don't actually do at all, but you use it as a way to verbally arouse your partner. Some men don't like it at all. Some don't like it because their genitals are just too sensitive. But some men love the idea of it, but not the practice of it. These are the ones with whom you only talk about it.
They key to doing CBT right is knowing his limits. Not just his pain threshold, but exactly what you can and cannot do. CBT, if not done correctly, can be dangerous. You could, inadvertently cause serious or even permanent damage to his penis or testicles. I know that is something you want to avoid. Just remember, always start out easy and progress from there. I have seen videos where men have been severely struck (with a fist, no less) and survived (supposedly) without damage. But, frankly, I don't know that they were not already damaged.
Okay, if you can't just hit or kick your partner in the balls, what can you do? Well, thumping them with your finger, especially if you tighten the skin around them first, can be painful but is not likely to cause any actual damage. He won't like it, unless he is really into pain, but it can be an effective deterrent to bad behavior. You can slap them with your open hand. Not too hard mind you, but you can work up to being able to give him a pretty good wallop if need be.
Here is a short list of some of the safer and fun things you can do that falls under the domain of CBT.
Binding :
You can use just about anything to tie up your partner's private parts. I recommend using a round boot-lace. You can get
Cross Dressing: If your partner is NOT into dressing up like a woman, this can be a good discipline. Simply dress him up in whatever women's clothing you can find that will fit him and take him out on the town. Assuming he hates the idea, perhaps he will learn something from it. Besides, he cannot be arrested simply for wearing women's clothing in public.
Physical Pain: Besides spanking or paddling, there are a number of ways to cause your partner a little pain without causing him any harm. You can always place clamps or clothespins on his nipples, his balls, his tongue, or anywhere else you think appropriate. You can apply ice to his genitals, or put a mentholated cream on his anus or genitals. Be sure to make him wear something snug to aid in the heat generation. You could even poke him repeatedly with a toothpick or wooden kabob skewer, a bit harder than when you are teasing him with it. You could use a shoe string to bind his genitals tightly for a short while, until he has learned his lesson.
There are literally thousands of things you can do if want to. Just put your imagination to work and I am sure will come up with some of your own. Remember, the point is to correct his behavior. Always make sure that he understands that while he is being punished or disciplined. Just because he is being punished is no reason you can't have fun. So be creative and enjoy it when you can. There will be plenty of times when you won't be able to enjoy it because of the circumstances under which he must be punished. That first time may be hard for you, but if you are determined to maintain proper discipline, you have to do what you have to do.
Be strong, and he will thank you for it.
~ ~ ~
Chapter 13 : CBT For Fun & Punishment
Cock and Ball Torture can take on many forms. It can be used for many different reasons, as well. Perhaps you enjoy tormenting your partner because you have a sadistic streak that just needs an outlet. Maybe you want to use it as a form of punishment. Or, just maybe, you do it because your partner enjoys it and you want to keep him happy (and aroused). Maybe you don't actually do at all, but you use it as a way to verbally arouse your partner. Some men don't like it at all. Some don't like it because their genitals are just too sensitive. But some men love the idea of it, but not the practice of it. These are the ones with whom you only talk about it.
They key to doing CBT right is knowing his limits. Not just his pain threshold, but exactly what you can and cannot do. CBT, if not done correctly, can be dangerous. You could, inadvertently cause serious or even permanent damage to his penis or testicles. I know that is something you want to avoid. Just remember, always start out easy and progress from there. I have seen videos where men have been severely struck (with a fist, no less) and survived (supposedly) without damage. But, frankly, I don't know that they were not already damaged.
Okay, if you can't just hit or kick your partner in the balls, what can you do? Well, thumping them with your finger, especially if you tighten the skin around them first, can be painful but is not likely to cause any actual damage. He won't like it, unless he is really into pain, but it can be an effective deterrent to bad behavior. You can slap them with your open hand. Not too hard mind you, but you can work up to being able to give him a pretty good wallop if need be.
Here is a short list of some of the safer and fun things you can do that falls under the domain of CBT.
Binding :
You can use just about anything to tie up your partner's private parts. I recommend using a round boot-lace. You can get
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