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Book: Beyond Tantra: Healing Through Taoist Sacred Sex by Mieke Wik, Stephan Wik
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Authors: Mieke Wik, Stephan Wik
Tags: Religión, General, Sex, Self-Help, Taoism, Body; Mind & Spirit, Healing, Sexuality & Gender Studies, Sexual Instruction, Mysticism, Religious aspects, Hygiene; Sexual, Findhorn Press, ISBN-13: 9781844090631, Hygiene; Taoist
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to release it gently with a bit of massage as you move along. First, do this on the back of your partner’s body and then gently turn her over and collect the gold dust on the front of her body into a little pile on top of her Yoni.
Woman: During the Gathering the Qi exercise you may feel that your body begins to sensitize and even tingle a bit. Breathe into any part of your body that starts to awaken in this way. ‘Breathe into’ means that you take a deep breath and when you exhale you direct your attention to a specific area of your body. This helps you to relax and open.
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You can gently circulate your Qi if you feel that you are becoming at all aroused.
STAGE 2: HONOUR YOUR PARTNER AND CONNECT THE CIRCUIT
According to Taoist energy-work theory, what we think and feel is just as important, if not more so, than what we do. Sexual Qi can be a raw, blasting force or it can be a gentle, subtle and yet incredibly powerful surge. The difference between the two manifestations of Sexual Qi is totally up to you and your partner’s thoughts, attitudes and actions. Respect, honour, tenderness and gentleness are the key qualities to remember. These qualities, in our experience, need to be in place before the sexual touching starts.
Man: Begin by ensuring your partner is comfortable. Have lots of cushions and a light blanket available so you can cover her if she gets chilled. You may also need some cushions for under your elbows. A few of them may get oily and you might want to use pillowcases on them that you can wash later on. Place some clean towels under your partner’s lower body. Move into the position as illustrated below and ensure that your partner has her head and shoulders up high enough to be able to look at you without having to bend her neck.
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Beyond Tantra – Healing Through Taoist Sacred Sex Start by making sure your hands are nice and warm by rubbing your palms vigorously together. Now ‘honour’ the woman by gently placing one hand on her heart (the space between her breasts) and the other gently over her Yoni. Use slow, gentle movements at all times. Look into each other’s eyes while you synchronize your breathing with your partner.
Now imagine that you have an electrical circuit that starts in the palm of your left hand, runs up your left arm, through your left shoulder, across to your right shoulder, down your right arm and to the palm of your right hand.
Complete this circuit by imagining that your right palm connects to your left palm through your partner’s body. In other words let the flow of energy move between your hands. This helps your partner’s heart connect with her Yoni. The flow direction is important as some Taoist texts indicate that you should always use your right hand to send energy and your left hand to receive it.
Hold this position for a few minutes until you both feel fully connected with each other.
Woman: It’s perfectly OK and helpful to wiggle your hips or pelvis a bit to loosen up your spine while being held this way as this helps to relax the body.
Man: Stop for a second and observe the situation. Your partner is in a very vulnerable position. She’s on her back, her legs are parted and you’re holding her in a very intimate way. This is a Gift. This is really quite a special offering that you are privileged to receive. Just pause for a second and let that sink in inside yourself.
Woman: Stay present and aware of your body. If there is any tension in your body, keep breathing into it to help it to relax. Keep regular eye contact with your partner.
STAGE 3: LEG AND THIGH MASSAGE
Most women do not like to be grabbed or touched quickly on their sexual organs without prior warning. This is different from men who usually don’t mind at all if you just reach out and touch their Jade Stalk. Instead, it’s important to work in gradually towards Yoni almost as if Yoni
Woman: During the Gathering the Qi exercise you may feel that your body begins to sensitize and even tingle a bit. Breathe into any part of your body that starts to awaken in this way. ‘Breathe into’ means that you take a deep breath and when you exhale you direct your attention to a specific area of your body. This helps you to relax and open.
tantrapp 16/7/05 5:30 pm Page 81
Yoni Massage Exercise
81
You can gently circulate your Qi if you feel that you are becoming at all aroused.
STAGE 2: HONOUR YOUR PARTNER AND CONNECT THE CIRCUIT
According to Taoist energy-work theory, what we think and feel is just as important, if not more so, than what we do. Sexual Qi can be a raw, blasting force or it can be a gentle, subtle and yet incredibly powerful surge. The difference between the two manifestations of Sexual Qi is totally up to you and your partner’s thoughts, attitudes and actions. Respect, honour, tenderness and gentleness are the key qualities to remember. These qualities, in our experience, need to be in place before the sexual touching starts.
Man: Begin by ensuring your partner is comfortable. Have lots of cushions and a light blanket available so you can cover her if she gets chilled. You may also need some cushions for under your elbows. A few of them may get oily and you might want to use pillowcases on them that you can wash later on. Place some clean towels under your partner’s lower body. Move into the position as illustrated below and ensure that your partner has her head and shoulders up high enough to be able to look at you without having to bend her neck.
tantrapp 16/7/05 5:30 pm Page 82
82
Beyond Tantra – Healing Through Taoist Sacred Sex Start by making sure your hands are nice and warm by rubbing your palms vigorously together. Now ‘honour’ the woman by gently placing one hand on her heart (the space between her breasts) and the other gently over her Yoni. Use slow, gentle movements at all times. Look into each other’s eyes while you synchronize your breathing with your partner.
Now imagine that you have an electrical circuit that starts in the palm of your left hand, runs up your left arm, through your left shoulder, across to your right shoulder, down your right arm and to the palm of your right hand.
Complete this circuit by imagining that your right palm connects to your left palm through your partner’s body. In other words let the flow of energy move between your hands. This helps your partner’s heart connect with her Yoni. The flow direction is important as some Taoist texts indicate that you should always use your right hand to send energy and your left hand to receive it.
Hold this position for a few minutes until you both feel fully connected with each other.
Woman: It’s perfectly OK and helpful to wiggle your hips or pelvis a bit to loosen up your spine while being held this way as this helps to relax the body.
Man: Stop for a second and observe the situation. Your partner is in a very vulnerable position. She’s on her back, her legs are parted and you’re holding her in a very intimate way. This is a Gift. This is really quite a special offering that you are privileged to receive. Just pause for a second and let that sink in inside yourself.
Woman: Stay present and aware of your body. If there is any tension in your body, keep breathing into it to help it to relax. Keep regular eye contact with your partner.
STAGE 3: LEG AND THIGH MASSAGE
Most women do not like to be grabbed or touched quickly on their sexual organs without prior warning. This is different from men who usually don’t mind at all if you just reach out and touch their Jade Stalk. Instead, it’s important to work in gradually towards Yoni almost as if Yoni
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