The 21 Biggest Sex Lies by Shane Dustin Page B

respects your desires.
    Which is strange because…



Big Lie 10 : Only You Make Me Feel This Way
    When a woman is in love, she will do virtually anything to make her man happy.
    Most of us guys are too stupid to realize this because we operate on a different playing field. As Jeff Foxworthy often says in his redneck jokes…
    “…a man only wants three things: to watch a game, drink a beer, and see somebody get naked.”
    I admit it. With the exception of a few outliers, we are all simpletons. We go to work where we tell lies about our sexual prowess, hang out with our buddies where we tell lies about our sexual prowess, and buy trucks and big screen televisions to lie about our sexual prowess.
    In the end, when it is time to pay the piper, we crawl up the stairs to bed, and struggle to prove that we are not living one big lie.
    It is at times like this when the woman we love rolls over, kisses us good night and whispers, “Only you make me feel this way.”
    Which reminds me…



Big Lie 11: I Know My Wife
    A guy will do just about anything to protect his image—including lying to his buddies about being able to please his wife or girlfriend.
    The problem is, most guys honestly don’t know the first thing about a woman’s anatomy. It’s a mystery to us, and half the time we don’t know whether to poke it or kiss it. Sorry, I didn’t mean to get too graphic.
    But this is a book about truth, right?
    Take the G-Spot for example. What the heck is the G-Spot? I’ve read about it. But I seriously doubt I could point to it and say, “Yep, there is it boys. The G-Spot.”
    If I could I would probably be qualified to hang a shingle on my door and start doing pelvic exams. But alas, I’m just a guy.
    It seems some German OB-GYN found a spot inside his patients (creepy) that heightened the sensation of an orgasm. Fortunately, it is only a couple inches inside, so even the average guy could tickle this spot—if he could find it.
    Guys live the lie that they know everything there is to know about the woman in their life because they can’t face the fact that they are frightened by the female anatomy.



Big Lie 12: Sex Equals Love
    It is true that good sex generally accompanies a healthy relationship.
    But it is not true that good sex is the same as a healthy relationship.
    Relationships and sex are two different things. You can go to a club tonight, pick a partner, and probably have a good time. But if you think this means he loves you or wants a lasting relationship, you may be in for a rude surprise.
    Don’t fall for the lie that sex is love. They each have their place in life, and the sooner you can draw a line between the two, the better off you will be.



Big Lie 13 : It’s Important to Take a Test Drive
    This is the old lie that you need to sleep with the person you love before you commit to a long term relationship.
    This lie was born in the days when pre-marital sex was frowned upon, so people created this lie to justify having pre-marital sex.
    What it really comes down to is the notion that if you are incompatible in bed, the relationship does not stand a chance of working out. And of you truly believe this, and want to have sex, then I suppose you will.
    But don’t be afraid to make a commitment while the sexual side of your relationship remains a mystery.



Big Lie 14: Sex Without Commitment is Fun
    This isn’t so much a lie as it is a tool we use to justify playing around, and I suppose if you practice safe sex and use protection, it is all well and good.
    The key point here is you. If you truly want to have sex with somebody you just met, and you want to have sex without any emotional commitment, then that decision is up to you.
    But call me old fashioned…
    …Every woman I have ever met has associated sex with a relationship. And by definition, a relationship denotes commitment.
    I am so confused.
    The bottom line is don’t confuse sex with commitment, and be assertive—that is, make up your own