studies found that stimulating this area (a come-hither finger wiggle also works well here) can cause women to become lubricated in five to ten seconds, to become orgasmic in one to two minutes, and also can help women to ejaculate.
The U-spot
So named since it lies on top and/or to the sides of the urethral opening (which is right above the vagina), the U-spot not only is rich in nerve endings but contains another passion-inducing perk: erectile tissue. While the area is way too small to pop a noticeable hard-on, you might be able to feel a tiny bump with a fingertip after lightly tickling the area. And, as with the G-spot and A-spot, you might be able to get her to ejaculate by stimulating the U-spot.
The Perineum
This patch of skin between the vagina and the anus (aka “the taint” since “’tain’t one or the other”) is a crossroads of nerve endings and muscle groups that are responsible for revving up the entire pelvic region. These muscle groups include the bulbocavernosis muscles (which assist in tightening the vaginal canal and creating a clitoral erection), the ischiocavernosus muscles (responsible for maintaining a clitoral erection), and others. Pressing on the perineum is like flooring the gas pedal on a Ferrari—it’s bound to leave her breathless.
The Anus
If they could, many women would board off this area with a huge KEEP OUT sign spanning from cheek to cheek. If the woman you’rewith is one of these, that’s her prerogative—it’s her anus, after all. Still, the fact of the matter is, the anus contains more nerve endings than any other part of the body, second only to the genitals. So if she’s into your exploring the area (and you’re game to go there), turn to chapter 9 for details.
HANDLING HER ULTIMATE HOT SPOT:
SOME GUIDELINES TO KEEP IN MIND
Now that you’ve got a good working knowledge of what’s going on under the hood, let’s bring your hands into the picture. In the next chapter we’ll show you specific techniques that will rev her engines, but in the meantime here’s some general advice that will help you avoid some common fumbles.
We Repeat: Your Finger Is Not a Penis
We know you know this, and yet time and again we see people (men and women) moving their hand in and out of the vagina in a thrusting motion that mimics exactly what a penis does down there to a tee. We’re not saying this motion doesn’t feel good or won’t come in handy on certain occasions, but the whole point of using your hands is that they can do things a penis cannot. For instance, as we mentioned already, some of the vagina’s most sensitive spots (such as the G-spot and A-spot) lie on its front wall a few inches in. The best way to stimulate these spots is not by chugging in and out like a piston, but by inserting a finger, holding it steady, and crooking it toward you in a come-hither motion so you’re actually moving the tissue inside rather than just rubbing along its surface. This is just one of many ways your hands trump a hard-on in the stimulation department, somake sure to use your mitts to their full potential rather than treating them like a surrogate schlong.
Wash Your Hands Before They Wander
You know how moms always tell you to wash your hands before you eat? We’d like to add an addendum to that rule that we’re sure few mothers would dare to mention: You should also wash your hands before you hop in the sack. It’s a scientific fact that in any given day your hands come in contact with countless surfaces that are crawling with badass microorganisms. What’s more, these germs most easily enter the body via the mucous membranes, which include the eyes, nose, mouth, and (last but not least) her vagina. Skip the soap and water and you could risk passing along anything from your garden-variety cold to the bacteria that cause a urinary tract infection, neither of which will do much for your sex life. Also keep in mind that bacteria often hide underneath fingernails, so make
The U-spot
So named since it lies on top and/or to the sides of the urethral opening (which is right above the vagina), the U-spot not only is rich in nerve endings but contains another passion-inducing perk: erectile tissue. While the area is way too small to pop a noticeable hard-on, you might be able to feel a tiny bump with a fingertip after lightly tickling the area. And, as with the G-spot and A-spot, you might be able to get her to ejaculate by stimulating the U-spot.
The Perineum
This patch of skin between the vagina and the anus (aka “the taint” since “’tain’t one or the other”) is a crossroads of nerve endings and muscle groups that are responsible for revving up the entire pelvic region. These muscle groups include the bulbocavernosis muscles (which assist in tightening the vaginal canal and creating a clitoral erection), the ischiocavernosus muscles (responsible for maintaining a clitoral erection), and others. Pressing on the perineum is like flooring the gas pedal on a Ferrari—it’s bound to leave her breathless.
The Anus
If they could, many women would board off this area with a huge KEEP OUT sign spanning from cheek to cheek. If the woman you’rewith is one of these, that’s her prerogative—it’s her anus, after all. Still, the fact of the matter is, the anus contains more nerve endings than any other part of the body, second only to the genitals. So if she’s into your exploring the area (and you’re game to go there), turn to chapter 9 for details.
HANDLING HER ULTIMATE HOT SPOT:
SOME GUIDELINES TO KEEP IN MIND
Now that you’ve got a good working knowledge of what’s going on under the hood, let’s bring your hands into the picture. In the next chapter we’ll show you specific techniques that will rev her engines, but in the meantime here’s some general advice that will help you avoid some common fumbles.
We Repeat: Your Finger Is Not a Penis
We know you know this, and yet time and again we see people (men and women) moving their hand in and out of the vagina in a thrusting motion that mimics exactly what a penis does down there to a tee. We’re not saying this motion doesn’t feel good or won’t come in handy on certain occasions, but the whole point of using your hands is that they can do things a penis cannot. For instance, as we mentioned already, some of the vagina’s most sensitive spots (such as the G-spot and A-spot) lie on its front wall a few inches in. The best way to stimulate these spots is not by chugging in and out like a piston, but by inserting a finger, holding it steady, and crooking it toward you in a come-hither motion so you’re actually moving the tissue inside rather than just rubbing along its surface. This is just one of many ways your hands trump a hard-on in the stimulation department, somake sure to use your mitts to their full potential rather than treating them like a surrogate schlong.
Wash Your Hands Before They Wander
You know how moms always tell you to wash your hands before you eat? We’d like to add an addendum to that rule that we’re sure few mothers would dare to mention: You should also wash your hands before you hop in the sack. It’s a scientific fact that in any given day your hands come in contact with countless surfaces that are crawling with badass microorganisms. What’s more, these germs most easily enter the body via the mucous membranes, which include the eyes, nose, mouth, and (last but not least) her vagina. Skip the soap and water and you could risk passing along anything from your garden-variety cold to the bacteria that cause a urinary tract infection, neither of which will do much for your sex life. Also keep in mind that bacteria often hide underneath fingernails, so make
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