her face.
Hameed and I never spoke of our brief past again. I would never know if he truly felt anything more than a playful interest in me or if he’d been baited into a marriage he never wanted. The impropriety of our days in the orchard lingered and we rarely let our eyes meet. Najiba never sensed the shadow between us. If she did, she said nothing about it. I might have done the same if I were in her place.
IN THE DAYS AFTER MY SISTER’S WEDDING, KOKOGUL WAS AGAIN visited by Bibi Shireen and her sister. This time it was Bibi Shireen’s sister, Khanum Zeba, who came in search of a bride.
Khanum Zeba came for me.
KokoGul had laughed. I knew my stepmother well enough that it did not bother me. I was not ready for marriage, not because I was too young or immature but because my heart was hardened. I’d seen the illusion of love but never the real thing. I had no reason to believe in love’s existence.
But Khanum Zeba was the kindest woman I’d ever met. I imagined my mother would have loved her. As I stared at the intricate pattern of our living room rug, I heard her say things about me that had never before been said.
She is everything I want for my son.
The first time I saw her, I knew she was meant for our family.
I had to look at her. Her words emboldened me to raise my eyes and meet hers. The skin around her clear, brown eyes crinkled as she serenely explained to a very curious KokoGul why she chose me.
I dreamed once . . . years ago . . . of my son’s wedding day. When I woke, I remembered every detail of it as if I’d attended the celebration the night before, including the face of the bride when we lifted the green veil for the nikkah. When I came to your home and met Fereiba, I recognized her.
Good for your son, KokoGul quipped, that you didn’t dream of the baker’s daughter—her skin’s as dark as the bread he burns.
While others hid their smirks with a hand over their mouths, KokoGul’s comments fell flat on my future mother-in-law.
Your daughter is a special girl. She deserves a life full of roshanee, light as warm as she is.
Khanum Zeba’s words were a bright, glowing moon hanging low in the night sky. KokoGul was aghast and ordered me out of the room, but Khanum Zeba walked over and placed her hand over mine, steadying my nerves.
I wanted to believe.
CHAPTER 12
Fereiba
IN MY YEARS IN AFGHANISTAN, I SURVIVED MANY REGIME changes, starting with my mother’s death and my father’s remarriage. Some changes had been harder to swallow than others.
Khanum Zeba became Khala Zeba to me, once KokoGul placed my shirnee before her and agreed to give my hand in marriage. I’d never before seen her son, Mahmood. In a way, it was Khanum Zeba I had fallen for. Her son was merely her outstretched hand. But going through the motions of life together, Mahmood and I slowly became husband and wife.
When I told Khanum Zeba that I wanted to be a teacher, she insisted I pursue it. She’d been a teacher as well. I enrolled in a teaching program and worked my way through the courses with the support of a family I was barely a part of. My father and KokoGul were content to see me attend the classes.
“School, school, school. Your husband is going to buy you chalk and notebooks for gifts if you don’t make it clear you like things besides a classroom,” KokoGul teased.
MAHMOOD AND I WERE MARRIED IN 1979, A YEAR AFTER OUR ENGAGEMENT and just as the Soviet Union’s first baby-faced soldiers landed their heavy boots on Afghan soil. Having proudly earned a teaching degree in two years, I woke with fresh energy every day and took my place at the head of an elementary school classroom. The students were as eager as flightless, freshly hatched birds in a nest. It was for me to nurture their open minds, to teach them the words and numbers and ideas that would spread their wings.
Just two months after our wedding, Mahmood received word that his uncle’s family, including four children, had been killed by
Hameed and I never spoke of our brief past again. I would never know if he truly felt anything more than a playful interest in me or if he’d been baited into a marriage he never wanted. The impropriety of our days in the orchard lingered and we rarely let our eyes meet. Najiba never sensed the shadow between us. If she did, she said nothing about it. I might have done the same if I were in her place.
IN THE DAYS AFTER MY SISTER’S WEDDING, KOKOGUL WAS AGAIN visited by Bibi Shireen and her sister. This time it was Bibi Shireen’s sister, Khanum Zeba, who came in search of a bride.
Khanum Zeba came for me.
KokoGul had laughed. I knew my stepmother well enough that it did not bother me. I was not ready for marriage, not because I was too young or immature but because my heart was hardened. I’d seen the illusion of love but never the real thing. I had no reason to believe in love’s existence.
But Khanum Zeba was the kindest woman I’d ever met. I imagined my mother would have loved her. As I stared at the intricate pattern of our living room rug, I heard her say things about me that had never before been said.
She is everything I want for my son.
The first time I saw her, I knew she was meant for our family.
I had to look at her. Her words emboldened me to raise my eyes and meet hers. The skin around her clear, brown eyes crinkled as she serenely explained to a very curious KokoGul why she chose me.
I dreamed once . . . years ago . . . of my son’s wedding day. When I woke, I remembered every detail of it as if I’d attended the celebration the night before, including the face of the bride when we lifted the green veil for the nikkah. When I came to your home and met Fereiba, I recognized her.
Good for your son, KokoGul quipped, that you didn’t dream of the baker’s daughter—her skin’s as dark as the bread he burns.
While others hid their smirks with a hand over their mouths, KokoGul’s comments fell flat on my future mother-in-law.
Your daughter is a special girl. She deserves a life full of roshanee, light as warm as she is.
Khanum Zeba’s words were a bright, glowing moon hanging low in the night sky. KokoGul was aghast and ordered me out of the room, but Khanum Zeba walked over and placed her hand over mine, steadying my nerves.
I wanted to believe.
CHAPTER 12
Fereiba
IN MY YEARS IN AFGHANISTAN, I SURVIVED MANY REGIME changes, starting with my mother’s death and my father’s remarriage. Some changes had been harder to swallow than others.
Khanum Zeba became Khala Zeba to me, once KokoGul placed my shirnee before her and agreed to give my hand in marriage. I’d never before seen her son, Mahmood. In a way, it was Khanum Zeba I had fallen for. Her son was merely her outstretched hand. But going through the motions of life together, Mahmood and I slowly became husband and wife.
When I told Khanum Zeba that I wanted to be a teacher, she insisted I pursue it. She’d been a teacher as well. I enrolled in a teaching program and worked my way through the courses with the support of a family I was barely a part of. My father and KokoGul were content to see me attend the classes.
“School, school, school. Your husband is going to buy you chalk and notebooks for gifts if you don’t make it clear you like things besides a classroom,” KokoGul teased.
MAHMOOD AND I WERE MARRIED IN 1979, A YEAR AFTER OUR ENGAGEMENT and just as the Soviet Union’s first baby-faced soldiers landed their heavy boots on Afghan soil. Having proudly earned a teaching degree in two years, I woke with fresh energy every day and took my place at the head of an elementary school classroom. The students were as eager as flightless, freshly hatched birds in a nest. It was for me to nurture their open minds, to teach them the words and numbers and ideas that would spread their wings.
Just two months after our wedding, Mahmood received word that his uncle’s family, including four children, had been killed by
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