lubricated penis between her thighs, thrusting up against her vulva. Squeezing her thighs together will provide even more stimulation. This can also be done from behind in a spooning position. Slightly crossing her legs and squeezing her upper thighs around
his shaft provides even greater “ohmigod” stimulation.
Among the frenulum’s marvels is its role in helping men with complete spinal-cord lesions (quadriplegia) to reproduce. Since a quadriplegic can- not ejaculate during coitus, vibratory stimulation can be applied to the frenulum to produce ejaculate for intrauterine insemination.
U-Spot
The male’s urethral opening, or U-spot, a slitlike vertical opening in the glans, is the orifice through which urine and semen are released (see Fig- ure 5.1 on page 64). It can be an erogenous area for some men, though many find its stimulation uncomfortable, painful, or simply ineffective. To stimulate this area, use lube and gently circle, rub, or press it with your fingers or a sex toy, making sure to check in with your partner as to whether or not such arousal feels good.
Why Is the Penis One of the Hottest Spots?
The penis is lauded as the trophy of all male hot spots because it puts on one helluva show. Plus, because of its sensitivity to touch, pressure, tem- perature, and stimuli, it is often regarded as having a mind of its own. Among the nerves that make the penis such a major hub of erotic activity are the dorsal nerve, which is a continuation of the pudendal nerve, and the greater cavernous nerve, which is key in erection.
But what really gets “ooohs” and “ahhhs” is the penis’s response to sexual stimulation. When sexually excited, a man’s penis becomes erect as it fills with blood and hardens, causing the glans to swell and become more noticeable. It’s practically irresistible, like an endearing puppy at the pound that locks in your gaze. It begs for attention.
Erections happen because the penis’s internal structure consists of spongy erectile bodies that fill with blood and swell (the corpora caver- nosa and corpus spongiosum mentioned earlier; see Figure 6.1 on page 85). As a man gets more and more turned on, a few drops of fluid, known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or pre-cum, appear at the tip of the penis. As his performance continues, he hovers near a titillating sexual boiling point
for as long as he can control himself, before bursting into orgasm, most often complemented by a geyserlike show of ejaculation! (Note: A man can ejaculate without necessarily having an orgasm, and he can also have an orgasm without necessarily ejaculating.)
Penis-Induced Orgasm
For most men, orgasm is almost always attained entirely through penile stimulation—the penis-induced orgasm —and is almost always accom- panied by the ejaculation of semen. This orgasm actually originates at his prostate, moving into his penis and testicles, seizing his entire reproduc- tive system. The muscles at the base of the penis and urethral bulb con- tract rhythmically, forcing semen through the urethra and then out of the opening at the tip of the penis. In some cases, with proper breathing, mindfulness, and control, this climactic reaction can spread, becoming a total mind-body-spirit experience.
Penis Myths and Misconceptions
Myth: Penises without foreskins are better.
Functionally speaking, both circumcised and uncircumcised penises are highly erogenous. Men experience a great deal of penile sensitivity with or without their foreskin. The foreskin does, however, contain a richer vari- ety and greater concentration of specialized nerve receptors than any other part of the penis, which is why many men who have been circum- cised feel unjustly deprived of their full erotic potential. (Note: Because the foreskin is so sensitive, partners should determine whether a man prefers for his foreskin to slide over the head of the penis during sexual stimulation or for it to be pulled back. His preference
his shaft provides even greater “ohmigod” stimulation.
Among the frenulum’s marvels is its role in helping men with complete spinal-cord lesions (quadriplegia) to reproduce. Since a quadriplegic can- not ejaculate during coitus, vibratory stimulation can be applied to the frenulum to produce ejaculate for intrauterine insemination.
U-Spot
The male’s urethral opening, or U-spot, a slitlike vertical opening in the glans, is the orifice through which urine and semen are released (see Fig- ure 5.1 on page 64). It can be an erogenous area for some men, though many find its stimulation uncomfortable, painful, or simply ineffective. To stimulate this area, use lube and gently circle, rub, or press it with your fingers or a sex toy, making sure to check in with your partner as to whether or not such arousal feels good.
Why Is the Penis One of the Hottest Spots?
The penis is lauded as the trophy of all male hot spots because it puts on one helluva show. Plus, because of its sensitivity to touch, pressure, tem- perature, and stimuli, it is often regarded as having a mind of its own. Among the nerves that make the penis such a major hub of erotic activity are the dorsal nerve, which is a continuation of the pudendal nerve, and the greater cavernous nerve, which is key in erection.
But what really gets “ooohs” and “ahhhs” is the penis’s response to sexual stimulation. When sexually excited, a man’s penis becomes erect as it fills with blood and hardens, causing the glans to swell and become more noticeable. It’s practically irresistible, like an endearing puppy at the pound that locks in your gaze. It begs for attention.
Erections happen because the penis’s internal structure consists of spongy erectile bodies that fill with blood and swell (the corpora caver- nosa and corpus spongiosum mentioned earlier; see Figure 6.1 on page 85). As a man gets more and more turned on, a few drops of fluid, known as pre-ejaculatory fluid or pre-cum, appear at the tip of the penis. As his performance continues, he hovers near a titillating sexual boiling point
for as long as he can control himself, before bursting into orgasm, most often complemented by a geyserlike show of ejaculation! (Note: A man can ejaculate without necessarily having an orgasm, and he can also have an orgasm without necessarily ejaculating.)
Penis-Induced Orgasm
For most men, orgasm is almost always attained entirely through penile stimulation—the penis-induced orgasm —and is almost always accom- panied by the ejaculation of semen. This orgasm actually originates at his prostate, moving into his penis and testicles, seizing his entire reproduc- tive system. The muscles at the base of the penis and urethral bulb con- tract rhythmically, forcing semen through the urethra and then out of the opening at the tip of the penis. In some cases, with proper breathing, mindfulness, and control, this climactic reaction can spread, becoming a total mind-body-spirit experience.
Penis Myths and Misconceptions
Myth: Penises without foreskins are better.
Functionally speaking, both circumcised and uncircumcised penises are highly erogenous. Men experience a great deal of penile sensitivity with or without their foreskin. The foreskin does, however, contain a richer vari- ety and greater concentration of specialized nerve receptors than any other part of the penis, which is why many men who have been circum- cised feel unjustly deprived of their full erotic potential. (Note: Because the foreskin is so sensitive, partners should determine whether a man prefers for his foreskin to slide over the head of the penis during sexual stimulation or for it to be pulled back. His preference
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