people but generally stay within my own circle of acquaintances. b) Yes. c) No, I prefer to stay within my own circle of acquaintances. 5 How often do you worry about living up to the standards of others? a) Occasionally. b) Never. c) More than occasionally. 132 K:/Books/1387jw/0470017732/ch05/text_s/c05.3d Emotional Intelligence 6 Would you be afraid of standing up and making your point of view known at a public meeting? a) Not afraid, but somewhat nervous perhaps. b) No. c) Yes. 7 What is most likely to be your reaction if told there was to be a complete reorganisation at your place of work? a) Somewhat apprehensive. b) If possible I would like to be involved in the reorganisation, and would tend to look on the positive side in case it presented me with a better career opportunity. c) Quite alarmed, as such changes frequently lead to redundancies or adverse changes to job descriptions. 8 Are you able to bounce back quickly after serious adversity? a) Usually, although it depends to a great extent on how serious an adversity. b) Yes, I find that I am usually able to bounce back quickly, even from serious adversity. c) Not really, as it takes quite some time to bounce back from serious adversity. 9 Do you ever feel self-conscious in public places? a) Sometimes. b) Never. c) Often. 10 Do you believe it is fun sometimes to live dangerously? a) Perhaps just occasionally. b) Yes. c) No. 133 K:/Books/1387jw/0470017732/ch05/text_s/c05.3d The Complete Book of Intelligence Tests 11 When you gamble, what are your expectations of winning? a) I am usually cautiously optimistic. b) I am usually very optimistic. c) I am usually not optimistic. 12 When you are having an argument do you always stick to your guns if you honestly believe that you are correct? a) Usually I stick to my guns, but may terminate the argument with a comment such as, ‘We will have to agree to differ’. b) Yes, I relish a debate and would try even harder to get my point across. c) Sometimes I have given up an argument and started to think that I might not be correct after all. 13 How often do you put yourself down? a) Occasionally. b) Rarely or never. c) More than occasionally. 14 Would you feel nervous about meeting someone very influential or famous? a) Somewhat nervous. b) No, in fact I would relish the opportunity. c) Very nervous. 15 How often do you feel sad or depressed about your personal circumstances? a) Occasionally. b) Rarely or never. c) More than occasionally. 134 K:/Books/1387jw/0470017732/ch05/text_s/c05.3d Emotional Intelligence 16 What is your reaction if someone is being particularly unhelpful and negative? a) Persevere quietly with trying to make the person understand what you require. b) Express your annoyance to them. c) Accept the situation and keep your feelings to yourself. 17 How much confidence do you have in your own decisions? a) Fairly confident. b) A great deal. c) More hopeful than confident that I have made the right decision. 18 Are you backward at coming forward? a) Sometimes. b) No. c) Frequently. 19 Do you believe in the power of positive thinking? a) Maybe. b) Yes. c) It is not something I have ever thought about. 20 What are your views on selling yourself? a) Sometimes you have to sell yourself in order to achieve your ambitions. b) It is very important to sell yourself well in order to succeed. c) It is a necessary evil in today’s world that you have to sell yourself, but it is not something I am good at doing. 135 K:/Books/1387jw/0470017732/ch05/text_s/c05.3d The Complete Book of Intelligence Tests 21 Does the prospect of making a speech in front of a large audience worry you? a) It would make me more nervous than worried. b) I would be no more than slightly nervous. c) Yes. 22 How often do you set yourself goals? a) Occasionally. b) More than occasionally. c) Rarely or never, as I believe in taking life as it