any weight on top of you.
CONS
For some partners, there is simply not enough skin-on-skin contact in this position, so they may feel too disconnected from each other. Some men may find that they have trouble maintaining an erection because of the unique angle and/or the lack of deep penetration or quick thrusting. You should always proceed with caution in this position and never do it if it hurts at all. Double X is impossible for some men whose penises just won’t bend that way!
TRY THIS VARIATION!
TRIPLE X
In Triple X, he begins in the same position, but she begins in Reverse Cowgirl. Slowly, she leans forward toward his feet, until she is almost lying down between his legs. She can keep her knees bent or let her legs lie straight behind her. This version gives him a great view of her ass and may actually be easier to achieve than the Double X.
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Giving It Good
Hold onto her hands or arms as she leans back (or forward). This will help you guide her slowly and also create a nice tension between your two bodies.
Grab onto her upper thighs and pull her toward you.
If she likes double penetration, slip a slim dildo into her vagina.
In Triple X, you can reach up and spank her ass cheeks as you penetrate her.
Getting It Good
In Double X, once you’ve leaned back, sit up slightly to make eye contact and maybe catch a glimpse of him going in and out of your ass.
Hold onto his feet or ankles to give yourself some leverage and rock gently up and down on his penis.
In Triple X, roll your hips in a figure eight shape as you ride his cock slowly.
Reach down between your legs to stroke his balls.
Turn your head and look back to watch the penetration.
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FLYING MISSIONARY
She lies on her back with her butt scooted down to the edge of the bed, and he stands at the edge of the bed. She bends her knees and rests her feet on his abdomen.
PROS
This has many of the pluses of Missionary position—it’s good for eye contact, communication, and kissing—along with some others of its own. For women who find Missionary on a bed—when their legs must rest on their shoulders—too uncomfortable to maintain, this makes a great alternative that requires a little less flexibility. Plus, women can take a more active role in the penetration, using their feet for leverage to push off their partner’s body. He has lots of thrusting power since he is standing, and both partners have a great view of each other’s bodies.
CONS
Although it is different, Flying Missionary can still feel too pretzel-like for some women. Other women may feel as if their partner’s body is too far away from theirs. For women who like their breasts and nipples played with during lovemaking—and men who like to watch their partner’s breasts—this position blocks the view and access.
TRY THIS VARIATION!
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Giving It Good
Grab onto her thighs to help maintain your balance.
Reach between her legs to rub her clitoris or stroke her vulva.
Straighten out her legs and move them so they’re at a right angle to her body.
If she likes bondage, try cuffing her hands above her head to enhance the feeling of surrender.
Getting It Good
Put a pillow or a Liberator Shape under your butt for a better angle and to make this position more comfortable.
Wrap your legs around his torso to bring him closer to you.
Can’t reach his sensitive nipples with your fingers? Try stimulating them with your feet. He will especially love this if he has a foot fetish!
Change the angle of penetration by changing the angle of your hips.
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FLY ON THE WALL
If one side of the bed is close to a wall, have him stand in front of the wall as you scoot to the edge of the bed. Then, spread your legs and put your feet on the wall. This will give you lots of leverage so that you can meet his thrusts or take over the thrusting yourself. This is a good option for women who want to take a more active role. Because your legs are spread, it also gives both of you easier access to your vulva
CONS
For some partners, there is simply not enough skin-on-skin contact in this position, so they may feel too disconnected from each other. Some men may find that they have trouble maintaining an erection because of the unique angle and/or the lack of deep penetration or quick thrusting. You should always proceed with caution in this position and never do it if it hurts at all. Double X is impossible for some men whose penises just won’t bend that way!
TRY THIS VARIATION!
TRIPLE X
In Triple X, he begins in the same position, but she begins in Reverse Cowgirl. Slowly, she leans forward toward his feet, until she is almost lying down between his legs. She can keep her knees bent or let her legs lie straight behind her. This version gives him a great view of her ass and may actually be easier to achieve than the Double X.
----
Giving It Good
Hold onto her hands or arms as she leans back (or forward). This will help you guide her slowly and also create a nice tension between your two bodies.
Grab onto her upper thighs and pull her toward you.
If she likes double penetration, slip a slim dildo into her vagina.
In Triple X, you can reach up and spank her ass cheeks as you penetrate her.
Getting It Good
In Double X, once you’ve leaned back, sit up slightly to make eye contact and maybe catch a glimpse of him going in and out of your ass.
Hold onto his feet or ankles to give yourself some leverage and rock gently up and down on his penis.
In Triple X, roll your hips in a figure eight shape as you ride his cock slowly.
Reach down between your legs to stroke his balls.
Turn your head and look back to watch the penetration.
----
FLYING MISSIONARY
She lies on her back with her butt scooted down to the edge of the bed, and he stands at the edge of the bed. She bends her knees and rests her feet on his abdomen.
PROS
This has many of the pluses of Missionary position—it’s good for eye contact, communication, and kissing—along with some others of its own. For women who find Missionary on a bed—when their legs must rest on their shoulders—too uncomfortable to maintain, this makes a great alternative that requires a little less flexibility. Plus, women can take a more active role in the penetration, using their feet for leverage to push off their partner’s body. He has lots of thrusting power since he is standing, and both partners have a great view of each other’s bodies.
CONS
Although it is different, Flying Missionary can still feel too pretzel-like for some women. Other women may feel as if their partner’s body is too far away from theirs. For women who like their breasts and nipples played with during lovemaking—and men who like to watch their partner’s breasts—this position blocks the view and access.
TRY THIS VARIATION!
----
Giving It Good
Grab onto her thighs to help maintain your balance.
Reach between her legs to rub her clitoris or stroke her vulva.
Straighten out her legs and move them so they’re at a right angle to her body.
If she likes bondage, try cuffing her hands above her head to enhance the feeling of surrender.
Getting It Good
Put a pillow or a Liberator Shape under your butt for a better angle and to make this position more comfortable.
Wrap your legs around his torso to bring him closer to you.
Can’t reach his sensitive nipples with your fingers? Try stimulating them with your feet. He will especially love this if he has a foot fetish!
Change the angle of penetration by changing the angle of your hips.
----
FLY ON THE WALL
If one side of the bed is close to a wall, have him stand in front of the wall as you scoot to the edge of the bed. Then, spread your legs and put your feet on the wall. This will give you lots of leverage so that you can meet his thrusts or take over the thrusting yourself. This is a good option for women who want to take a more active role. Because your legs are spread, it also gives both of you easier access to your vulva
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