. . .  Rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others without putting his thumb on the scales. â B YRON J . L ANGENFIELD  Only God is in a position to look down on anyone. âS ARAH B ROWN  The unforgiving man assumes a judgment that not even the theologians has [sic] given to God. â S YDNEY J . H ARRIS  I have never for one instant seen clearly within myself. How then would you have me judge the deeds of others? â M AURICE M AETERLINCK  Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo. â H . G . W ELLS  Other peopleâs faults are like bees â if we donât see them, they donât harm us. âL UIS V IGIL Pensamientos y Observaciónes  Make no judgments where you have no compassion. âA NNE M C C AFFREY Dragonquest  How much easier it is to be critical than to be correct. â B ENJAMIN D ISRAELI  What we all tend to complain about most in other people are those things we donât like about ourselves. â W ILLIAM W HARTON Tidings  I donât like a man to be efficient. Heâs likely to be not human enough. â F ELIX F RANKFRUTER  When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that three of his fingers are pointing at himself. â A NONYMOUS  Ought is not a word we use to other people. It is a word we should reserve for ourselves. â S ISTER W ENDY B ECKETT  Perhaps no phenomenon contains so much destructive feeling as âmoral indignation,â which permits envy or hate to be acted out under the guise of virtue. â E RICH F ROMM  If you judge people, you have no time to love them. â M OTHER T ERESA OF C ALCUTTA  Speak not against anyone whose burden you have not weighed yourself. â M ARION B RADLEY Black Trillium  Puritanism is the haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy. â H . L . M ENCKEN  This is a do-it-yourself test for paranoia: you know youâve got it when you canât think of anything thatâs your fault. â R OBERT M . H UTCHINS  That which we call sin in others is experiment for us. â R ALPH W ALDO E MERSON  We all have weaknesses. But I have figured that others have put up with mine so tolerantly that I would be less than fair not to make a reasonable discount for theirs. â W ILLIAM A LLEN W HITE  We are all inclined to judge ourselves by our ideals; others, by their acts. â H AROLD N ICOLSON  Distrust all in whom the impulse to punish is powerful. â F RIEDRICH N IETZSCHE  Nothing so needs reforming as other peopleâs habits. â M ARK T WAIN  Our faults irritate us most when we see them in others. â P ENNSYLVANIA D UTCH PROVERB  The enthusiastic, to those who are not, are always something of a trial. â A LBAN G OODIER  There is little room left for wisdom when one is full of judgment. â M ALCOLM H EIN  Nothing in the world is so rare as a person one can always put up with. â G IACOMO L EOPARDI  When nobody around you seems to measure up, itâs time to check your yardstick. â B ILL L EMLEY  It has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues. â A BRAHAM L INCOLN  There are certain small faults that offset great virtues. There are certain great faults that are forgotten in small virtues. â G RANTLAND R ICE W ATTS  Accept me as I amâonly then will we discover each other. â F ROM F EDERICO F ELLINIâS 8 1/2  The less secure a man is, the more likely he is to have extreme prejudices. â C LINT E ASTWOOD  Nothing dies so hard, or rallies so often, as intolerance. â H ENRY W ARD B EECHER  Prejudices are the chains forged by ignorance to keep men apart. â C OUNTESS OF B LESSINGTON  Prejudice is a disease characterized by