nipples,
or let your hand sneak between your legs. Moan with him deep in your mouth –
the vibrations will drive him crazy!
Simple, right? Using these techniques for your hands and mouth together will drive your man
insane, guaranteed .
So start practicing!
Actually, there's one more thing
that we should cover before you run off to the bedroom, because you're going to
encounter it very, very soon.
The Big Finish
That's right, I'm talking about his
moment of glory; his big O.
A perfect finish is the best way to
end a great blowjob, and it will leave him starry-eyed and wanting more. A
little extra attention paid here will make this moment even more intense for
your guy, so it's worth it to get creative!
A great way to make sure you don't
get caught unawares at the big moment is to simply ask your guy to let you know
when he's going to finish.
Believe me, he knows.
Have him say it aloud, or work out
some sort of signal. He could tap your shoulder or say a special
word...whatever you want. But make sure he knows to tell you, so you can be
prepared.
When he starts to come, do not stop! This is important!
Continuing to stimulate him while
he orgasms with make it even more intense, but if you stop suddenly it could
"kill" his orgasm.
The most conventional finish (for
good reason) would be to let your man ejaculate in your mouth. Finishing in
your warm, wet mouth is similar to finishing you-know-where, so it's obvious why
he would enjoy it.
You're faced with a dilemma at that
point. The classic question. Spit or swallow?
This is your choice, obviously, but
I'm going to tell you why you should swallow. Some men feel somewhat rejected
if you rush off to spit out their semen after a blowjob.
How would you feel if he ran out of
bed to use some mouthwash after he went down on you? So get real – it's already
in your mouth.
You'll still be able to taste it
just as much if you spit it out as if you swallow it, so why not just swallow?
It's easier, sexier, and you run no risk of making your partner feel unwanted.
If your lover's semen has a
particularly strong taste, try encouraging him to drink more water. If a man is
drinking plenty of water and has a relatively healthy diet, his semen shouldn't
taste strong or offensive.
Don't Fear The Fluid!
I strongly encourage you to give
swallowing a try at least once, but if you really can't face it there are lots
of sexy other ways to finish him off.
For any fluid-shy ladies out there,
you can also finish your man using only your hand.
Step 1: When you remove your mouth, begin stroking him, trying to
maintain the pace that you were using with your mouth.
Make sure you've left his penis
nice and wet with your oral attentions so you don't tug at his sensitive skin.
Things will get even slipperier with his semen, so don't worry too much about
it.
Step 2: Continue to stroke from base to tip and back, slowing down
as his orgasm deepens.
Many men become very sensitive
after their orgasm, so it's good to back off slightly as he nears completion.
No sweat, right? This is a
perfectly pleasurable way to finish a great blowjob, but now I'll share some
insanely sexy dirty-girl secrets with you.
You've all seen it in porn, guys
love finishing on various parts of the female body. (And why not, we're damn
sexy!)
There are two perennial favorites that I'm sure you're aware of – the breasts and
the face.
I don't personally see why some
women object to having their partner ejaculate on parts of their body. It all
comes back to the issue of submitting sexually, but as I have already
mentioned:
There Is No Submission Here
Pleasuring your partner is not a
submissive act, and receiving his fluids onto your body isn't either. You have
the power here, ladies!
This is all about your choice, and
allowing your man to finish on your pretty face or breasts will give him some
visual stimulation that he will absolutely never forget. So give these two
porn-star inspired moves a try!
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