prove our spousehood. Second, Bonnie had to answer the insulting ritual question, âmarried, single or divorced?â
âPartnered,â Bonnie said. The clerk smiled. A decade ago it would have been an accusatory look. Snail progress.
We arrived at the hospital at 6 a.m., for 6:45 surgery, only to discover that the private hospital was missing a key piece of paper from the Veteranâs Administration granting permissionfor the operation. My mate is a vet and due to our nationâs health care crisis, the VA is her only health insurance option. Thank God for that safety net. Butâ¦there are issues.
Bonnie was already hooked up to the IV, wearing the little surgical hat, and surrounded by a flock of medical personnel, and we were on hold â both in the OR and on the phone with the VA.
âJust go over there and get what they need, Fay,â the patient said. âItâs only a few blocks away.â
âWait,â said a nurse. âYou better take your documents, and maybe we should sign something telling them youâre allowed to get the information. You know the HIPPA privacy rules.â
âOh, right, weâre not legally married. Crap.â Whereupon no less than six doctors and nurses, all held up by the snafu, scribbled on a note pleading for me to be considered worthy of the patient information.
With a giant plastic bag filled with Bonnieâs clothes and our voluminous legal dossier slung over my shoulder, I raced to the lobby and hopped a cab to the VA hospital. I will spare you the details, but I was shuttled around to three offices and on hold with several non-compliant people as I frantically pictured a gaggle of expensive health care workers loitering by Bonnieâs gurney. At one point I was on hold from the lobby to the business office, listening to an educational tape about the seven signs of a heart attack and I was having eight of them.
Finally somebody agreed to call Bonnieâs surgeon and set things right. Heart pounding, I ran back downstairs and saw a shuttle bus. âDoes that go by Penn Presbyterian?â I asked.
âYep. Itâs for the vets. Are you a vet?â
âIâm the spouse of a vet.â
âWhatâs his name?â
âItâs a her.â Shit. What was I thinking? Toto, weâre NOT in Rehoboth.
âThen you canât be no spouse.â
Bet me. I may or may not have said a very bad word, swung my big plastic trash sack over my shoulder and, channeling Lily Tomlinâs bag lady, marched out the door and huffed and puffeduphill six blocks to return to the operatory.
Amazingly, the surgery finally happened a scant seven hours late, all went well and we headed home the next day.
Just let me say this about the past week. Thereâs a reason I work in public relations, not health care. I tried to be a good nurse, really I did, but it just isnât in my skill set.
Bonnie came home with a 36-inch leg brace to prevent knee bends and the thing is held together with a thousand strips of industrial strength Velcro. You have to be the Incredible Hulk to unstick it (which, I might become after spending a week as Clara Barton) and when you do get the Velcro open it instantly sticks to everything in the vicinity.
Iâve spent whole days peeling it off rugs, furniture, and pajamas. One time Moxie got up in Bonnieâs recliner when the thing was undone and we thought sheâd be spending the next few weeks dragging a schnauzer around by his beard. I stepped on a Velcro strip in my socks and took the appliance with me like toilet paper on a shoe.
Then there was the dressing to change and the blood thinning injections, not to mention the matzoh ball soup to prepare. I donât know whether this house was more like House, ER or Nip/Tuck (me taking a nip of Grey Goose after tucking the patient into bed), but somehow we did all right.
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