stretches out on top of her, putting his hands on the floor next to hers. This position works because he supports most of his weight on his own arms, so her rib cage is not squashed beneath him.
For maximum thrusting power, and to keep her from freefalling forward, he may want to press her calves down with his ankles. That way he can brace himself against her for even deeper strokes. She can use her strong upper body to push back against him for double the friction if she wants to get into the fun!
“No, the heart that has truly lov’d never forgets, But as truly loves on to the close; As the sunflower turns on her god when he sets The same look which she turn’d when he rose.”
—Thomas Moore
P ILLOW T ALK D OS AND D ON’TS
Bedroom dirty talk is one thing, but what do you say when you want to let your lover know you care? It’s all “fuck me!” this and “oh don’t stop!” that; what ever happened to a little romance? Here are some basic tips to help you say the right thing.
Do use the pet name you know your partner likes.
“Oh baby, you know I love what you do to me!”
Don’t use pet names you just came up with. I know it seemed like a good idea at the time, but . . .
“Oh YES, you’re so GOOD my Ass Queen!”
Do give instructions to help them hit the right spot.
“Yes! Touch me there, softer!”
Don’t give critiques.
“You really need to tighten up your tongue technique down there, guy!”
Do check in.
“Do you like that, huh, baby?”
Don’t zone out.
“Huh? What was that hon, I was watching the weather.”
Do try new things.
“Guess what new toy just came in the mail!?”
Don’t try new things before talking it over! “What, you didn’t like my new strapon?”
Do tell him or her what you’re planning.
“I’m going to flip you over and ride you until you come!”
Don’t talk about weekend plans.
“We need to get the car inspected this weekend, but we can do that on the way to my parents’ house . . . ”
S TAND AND D ELIVER
This move helps you make the fantasy of wild sex-standing-up a bit more doable! With a little leg up from your furniture, and a bit of upper-body strength, you’ll be on your way to vertical nirvana. Since your hands will be busy keeping you up, use the rest of your body to control the action. Small movements or adjustments—maybe a tilt of your hips?—can make a big difference in this position.
He stands by the edge of the bed. She wraps her arms around him and lifts her legs to the bed, with one foot on either side of him. He uses one arm to hold her closer to him with the other hand under her thigh to give her a bit more support. She can brace her legs against the bed to raise and lower herself against him (while he tries to stay upright!).
“Then fly betimes, for only they conquer love that run away. ”
— Thomas Carew
This position makes good use of normal bedroom scenery to get things done! Keep that in mind when you’re trying this one out: if your bedroom has a more convenient arrangement, use that to your advantage. Walls can be very helpful here: if your bed is by the wall, you can try this position in the space between the bed and the wall; she still rests her feet on the bed, but he turns to lean her back against the wall. This way he has even more support to hold her up, so they can keep going for longer—and with the extra support, you’ll both have better leverage for deeper thrusts that hit just the right spot!
Chapter Two
Doing It with Props
I NTRODUCTION
S ex doesn’t exist in a vacuum (although that would be awesome). Sometimes you need a leg up, and for that, you need props. But you don’t need to run out to your local Kink Mart for angled foam platforms or suspension bondage gear: everything you need to get your groove on is right at home. Knowing this, admit defeat, and just make it your mission to destroy the innocence of all of your household furniture, exercise equipment, and inanimate objects. Now every time you
For maximum thrusting power, and to keep her from freefalling forward, he may want to press her calves down with his ankles. That way he can brace himself against her for even deeper strokes. She can use her strong upper body to push back against him for double the friction if she wants to get into the fun!
“No, the heart that has truly lov’d never forgets, But as truly loves on to the close; As the sunflower turns on her god when he sets The same look which she turn’d when he rose.”
—Thomas Moore
P ILLOW T ALK D OS AND D ON’TS
Bedroom dirty talk is one thing, but what do you say when you want to let your lover know you care? It’s all “fuck me!” this and “oh don’t stop!” that; what ever happened to a little romance? Here are some basic tips to help you say the right thing.
Do use the pet name you know your partner likes.
“Oh baby, you know I love what you do to me!”
Don’t use pet names you just came up with. I know it seemed like a good idea at the time, but . . .
“Oh YES, you’re so GOOD my Ass Queen!”
Do give instructions to help them hit the right spot.
“Yes! Touch me there, softer!”
Don’t give critiques.
“You really need to tighten up your tongue technique down there, guy!”
Do check in.
“Do you like that, huh, baby?”
Don’t zone out.
“Huh? What was that hon, I was watching the weather.”
Do try new things.
“Guess what new toy just came in the mail!?”
Don’t try new things before talking it over! “What, you didn’t like my new strapon?”
Do tell him or her what you’re planning.
“I’m going to flip you over and ride you until you come!”
Don’t talk about weekend plans.
“We need to get the car inspected this weekend, but we can do that on the way to my parents’ house . . . ”
S TAND AND D ELIVER
This move helps you make the fantasy of wild sex-standing-up a bit more doable! With a little leg up from your furniture, and a bit of upper-body strength, you’ll be on your way to vertical nirvana. Since your hands will be busy keeping you up, use the rest of your body to control the action. Small movements or adjustments—maybe a tilt of your hips?—can make a big difference in this position.
He stands by the edge of the bed. She wraps her arms around him and lifts her legs to the bed, with one foot on either side of him. He uses one arm to hold her closer to him with the other hand under her thigh to give her a bit more support. She can brace her legs against the bed to raise and lower herself against him (while he tries to stay upright!).
“Then fly betimes, for only they conquer love that run away. ”
— Thomas Carew
This position makes good use of normal bedroom scenery to get things done! Keep that in mind when you’re trying this one out: if your bedroom has a more convenient arrangement, use that to your advantage. Walls can be very helpful here: if your bed is by the wall, you can try this position in the space between the bed and the wall; she still rests her feet on the bed, but he turns to lean her back against the wall. This way he has even more support to hold her up, so they can keep going for longer—and with the extra support, you’ll both have better leverage for deeper thrusts that hit just the right spot!
Chapter Two
Doing It with Props
I NTRODUCTION
S ex doesn’t exist in a vacuum (although that would be awesome). Sometimes you need a leg up, and for that, you need props. But you don’t need to run out to your local Kink Mart for angled foam platforms or suspension bondage gear: everything you need to get your groove on is right at home. Knowing this, admit defeat, and just make it your mission to destroy the innocence of all of your household furniture, exercise equipment, and inanimate objects. Now every time you
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